Hey all, its been awhile since i have written to you. I am having a hard time dealing with alot of things the last couple of weeks. Karen has been transfered to a facility downstate. She asked me to come down on saturday with her daughter to visit. But her ex-girlfriend, as taking it upon herslef to make the 2+ hour drive down to see her. I am confused...on why she had asked the ex to go down and visit her. Her ex is harassing me for money for the day care. I am not giving her money since she never gave us any money towerds day care or anything else for that matter. Her ex has been on a rampage for over a week now. The daughters grandmother is on my side and wants to take the grand daughter for good. but the ex, smoothed talked her into letting her keep "the financial burden." thats the ex's quote. I am mad at the fact that karen had asked the ex.. and then asked me to drive down, which i was going to do anyways....wouldnt that of been fun!!!!
I am feelinh hopeless and helpless in all aspects of my life.....i want to stop crying and i want the ex to go away...even karen wants the ex to go away...butshe never ever had gotten a spine to stand up to you and when the es harasses me.....she tries to tell ever one that i am the crazy one............and now she is trying to get me fired at work!!!
I am tired of all of this.......

thanks for letting me vent....
< wiping away the tears>

Hey, I am sorry that you have to go through all of this...

I think that the only thing I can see here is that you and Karen need to have a real heart to heart about this ex and how to - or not to - keep her around your lives in the future.

Just keep your eye on the fact that you are Karen's love now, and aside from all else, that it what is important.

I'm sorry for all this crap !!

Like Teb, I think you should have a talk with Karen concerning her ex.

Good luck
Phil

yes, i totally agree, have a heart to heart

Yup, you need to talk and talk and talk. Boundaries need to be set with this ex and don't worry about paying for daycare for god's sake.....

Deb

I have to agree with the others about talking about the ex. I mean really talk and let your feelings out no matter what happens. Remember that communication is the key.

Kristen

:( Trying to get you fired at work? Not good, really not good. Tell your lady and let her clean up her mess.

well, no worries about the ex...she went on a rampage and told me to pick up the daughter from day care. because she didnt want anything more to do with her!! and she was going to call d.s.s. if i didnt pick her up from day care. that is the last time she will ever see her!! BYE-BYE!!! (lesbians are such drama queens!!! ) LMAO i am visiting karen on saturday, we both agreed that we have to sit down and talk about alot of things. I was so upset the other day...i think what i wrote ws just to vent. thanks for the support!!
today is a good day!! ;-)

LMAO @ drama queens! :)

I missed this somehow... but I just wanted to say that I wish you the best with Karen. I'm sure once ya'll have a good talk, alot of things will be worked out!