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Jasmine
12-16-2001, 09:29 PM
I am the wife on an inmate at NH State Prsion- Lakes Region Facility.

My husband is Kenny. We met in March 2000 while he was in the halfway house. His bid is a 7 1/2 to 15 for armed robbery. We joke about the fact that he has got to be the only person who goes in to rob a place and comes out with a dime less than when they go in. We do not, however, joke about the crime itself...we have both suffered because of it. The better part of his sentence was spent in Supervised Housing Unit (SHU) and Close Custody (CCU). He was due to be paroled in April and would be moving in with his brother. However, 1 week before parole, he was lugged back to NHSP on a dirty urine (it was held for an entire month...I'll tell you why in a bit). After much fighting, he was paroled in July 2000. Since then he has gone back twice, and is currently serving time for a violation. He originally got a 6 month setback, suspended on acceptance to a long term rehab. We are now trying to get that cut to the 6 month setback and outpatient rehab upon parole. Right now he is behind the fence (C-3) at LRF...hopefully on Wedsnesday will be reclassified to C-2 and moved to MSU (outside the fence). If all goes well, he will serve 4 months in MSU and/or the halfway house and re-paroled in April.

Now why would they hold a urine that long?? Well, what we were TOLD was that extensive tests were run to be assured of the heroin because he was also on narcotics for a crushed finger injury (the finger has since been amputated). However, Kenny earned himself quite a name. He has a quick temper and was a real bad ass. He was also quite prominent in an Aryan gang. Many of the cops had it in for him, and both of us believe this is the real reason it was held for so long. Especially since several of his "brothers" were lugged at the same time for trumped up charges and planted "evidence". Even now, he is well respected and pretty much left alone. I'm greatful for this because it enables him to do what he needs to do to come home.

When Kenny is home he is a drywall subcontracter. He makes good money at it, which sometimes causes a lot of problems. He has a drug problem and is an alcoholic...so the more money he has, the more tempting the addictions become. But there is a definete change in him. He is now on medication for his anxiety and depression (triggers for him), so he handles things better and is overall much more pleasant. We are slowly working on changing his racial beliefs (I abhor them) and there is progress in that area. There is less fighting between us now that he is sober, and I find that I am falling in love with him all over again. I hope this is the LAST time he goes back because not only is it hard on me and my son, but also on him. When he does come home, I hope he'll get involved here. Maybe all he has gone through can help someone else...wether it be the families or another ex-inmate going through the same struggle he continues to go through.

Well, that's it in a nutshell I think!!

-Mira S.

David
12-17-2001, 08:42 AM
Mira,
Thank you for sharing your story with us and welcome aboard!
I'm glad to hear things are going well for you and that Kenny isn't very far from that out date. One thing I believe is a misconception (especially by "the powers that be") is that people with a rap sheet cannot or won't change. It is true that some become institutionalized and actually do not want to deal with the poressures on the outside but many old-school "cons" that have pushed quite a bit of time do want to change. The best celly I had has done over 25 years on the inside.(total) He still has 2 years to go to wrap up this sentence but I really believe he won't be going back, OR out in a blaze.. He also has a heroin habit but it no longer runs his life. He is proud and even better.. He has a girlfriend/fiancee that has been with him for the past 10 years while he has been down.. He wants change for himself, her and the rest of his family.. I know he will do it..
I am sure Kenny will too..
Again, welcome to PTO!

Take care,
David

Jasmine
12-17-2001, 12:53 PM
I tell Kenny all the time that the system should be proud of itself...he has turned into a nice little money maker for them. He went in there a scared kid...he was 21. After 10 years (with a 4 month break between bids) he has come out a hardened criminal. I won't lie...he is exactly that. He commits more crimes now than ever. They stick people in these facilities to "rehabilitate", but that is seldom what happens. I have a lot of friends who have done time, some of whom are Kenny's friends. I sit back and listen to their stories. I talk with their families. Many did their first bid on something petty. While they were in, they learned new "skills" and went on to commit even worse crimes. I don't totally blame Kenny or his friends for their actions. They made the choices, but I lay most of the blame on the system...that is what created them as they are today. I hear stories daily about the beatings issued by cops, the starvation, the degrading. When you treat someone like a caged animal, you need to take the blame for the result. The only reason I have had the patience I've had with Kenny is because I have seen firsthand what he has been subjected to inside. They wonder why it becomes so difficult for them to reform, but the system makes it almost impossible. Oh, the stories I could tell!! And what makes it really difficult is that it is not only the inmates that get mistreated, but the families as well. I have blown up countless times at prison officials becasue of the treatment *I* recieved from them! But that's a whole other story! LOL!

Jasmine
01-20-2002, 11:18 PM
Finally got a pic. :)

CREAMYALMONDZ
05-14-2002, 08:02 AM
Thats a nice picture!

soraya
05-15-2002, 09:36 AM
really nice picture indeed. And a very belated welcome from me!

Shortie
05-16-2002, 09:15 PM
how are you doing jasmine i am worried about you.. Please let us know.

Veronica
05-16-2002, 09:34 PM
Thanks for sharing, and welcome.