I am curious as to just how many different ( and I say different because we are not society's "norm") couples there are? My husband is black and I am white. I want everyone here to know that there are more out there then what we think. It is more common now then say 20 years ago. Do you notice more mixed couples around where you live now?

I am mixed (black and white) and my man is black.

I'm white and my SO is black, and unforturnately it isn't very excepted here where we live.

I'm white & Kevin is black (as you can see) :D It's not that accepted right here where I live but, I have to admit...it IS getting better!! :thumbsup:

(((huggs)))
Sel

I'm white and my husband is hispanic...

I am white and myman is black. We live in a state that is very accepting of interracial relationships

I am Caucasian (P.C. 4 White boy) and My Man is Hispanic (Hot Mexican). PTO's first I/R Gay Couple :D

I AM WHITE MY FIANCE IS BLACK IT IS VERY ACCEPTED WHERE I AM I HAVE BEEN IN INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIPS FOR LIKE 27 YEARS I HAVE 3 BI RACIAL BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN AND LOVE MY MAN UNCINDITIONALLY LOVE HAS NO COLOR

PTO's first I/R Gay Couple :D
You are tooooo cute! :p

I am white, well my mother was...my father who knows! And my daddy...I mean husband is black.

I was raised in a small town here in North Texas that had absolutely no black people, no hispanic people...nothing but white people...It was/is so racist that they had the areas KKK meetings outside of the town in a state park. I was not raised to have nor tolerate hatred and I have never dated white men. So to those of you that choose to live your life different than the others in your community. Keep your head up, ignore the ignorance and be happy. :)

Oh by the way I live in Dallas now and I think it's a big blur of racial mixing here!

For some reason I think I would like to kick it with you! :) One of my bestest friends at an old job I had was in a I/R Gay relationship and they had to be two of the sweetest people ever. You made me miss Wes! :(

I am Caucasian (P.C. 4 White boy) and My Man is Hispanic (Hot Mexican). PTO's first I/R Gay Couple :D

Wow. My best friend is in an interacial- gay relationship. She is the greatest. At first she only dated white women and then people say I rubbed on her :D cause now she is with a beautiful black women. Go nay-nay go. When my friends and I go out, we are a melting pot. Let's see, there is a gay male couple, two black and white couples, 1 lesbian-inter racial couple, 1 white-filipino couple, 1 "straight" couple, 1 hispanic-black couple. Boy do we get the stares. We always pick on the "straight" couple and tell them they are not normal. Always forward never straight!!!!!!;)

I am White/Mexican and my man is Black. I have always been in interracial relationships and fortunatly I live in Califronia where it is pretty much the norm now.

I am white and my fiance is black. As everyone else says its the norm in cali

Me white, him mix (black and white).. Mixes are the cutest!!

I'm Mexican and he's black.

He's is Mexican and I'm white.

I'm Native American and my husband is a very sexy tall, blond, blue-eyed, German citizen. I have always had a thing about tall blond aryans. All three of my husbands have been tall blue-eyed blondes. I wouldn't trade number three for anyone. Took me 3 times to find the right one and I'm keeping him.

I am Caucasian (P.C. 4 White boy) and My Man is Hispanic (Hot Mexican). PTO's first I/R Gay Couple :D
That was a cute answer:)
I am Black and my husband is Hispanic.

I am white and my fiance is black. The problem is that we have fought almost every month since he got locked up 5 1/2 months ago and we may be goign through our final fight. We only knew each other 3 weeks before he got arrested. Interracial relationships are definitely not tolerated in my state, he has had to experience much racism outside and inside prison.

As you can see he is black...and Im white. My son is mixed (not Donalds) In Jersey most of the younger people are not racist..but the older people are..like my GRANFATHER! :(

...him-black...me-white...both American...

I am white.My partner is black....

I am white and my husband is black. We've been togeather since I was 15 and he was 16 (11 years in November) and been married for 1 year. Where we are from it's not really accepted but it is getting better.

I'm white, he is black. Where we live it is accepted, well now it is, I used to have people say bad things to me 10-15 years ago but that doesn't happen anymore that I know of. Well it's been a while since I've walked down the street with him so I don't really know but in Los Angeles people are pretty accepting since there are so many races here.

I am mixed race of puerto rican and african american and he is white we have some stares and whispers but often my reply is what color is love? we are married and have been for almost two years i am glad to see this forum

Im mixed (black-white) and my baby is black. I live in London, lots are accepted including interracial relationships. Back in the day when my mum was with my dad it wasnt accepted, but now in the millennium it is totally accepted by most people.

im mixed (black-chinese) hes is mixed(white -japenese)...

Im white (russian), and my husband is black, and we have 2 beautiful babies! I live in Dallas, so you see a little bit of everything around here!

I am as white as they come and he is a light-skined MExican, He is SOOOOOO SEXXY! In Florida it is still looked at as a big "no no", but I don't care...that is who God wanted me to marry and I am VERY happy with my decision!!!
Great thread!
Megan

My hubby baby is Latino and I am Italian-American...he was born in Puerto Rico, I was born on Jerswey...so we are both mixed up and have some spicy hot tempers, imagine the little me rug rats we are gonna have ...LOL

Hi, I'm white and my husband is Native American. :)

I am well I guess you could say a Latina Mutt bow wow wow!!! =) Spanish and Puerto Rican on daddy's side and Mexican and Apache on mama's side. My man is black. It's only fair to mention that he is also 15 years younger than me. Don't hate, congratulate LOL!!!

Patty

`I'm Black and my husband is Black. (smile) I think people be buggin off IRRs because they don't see too many of them. I believe in areas where there's a lot of that, that it's actually kinda strange seeing same race couples. However, in areas where you see a lot more same race couples and not that many IRRs, some people may get beside theirselves because they're not used to seeing it.

I live in southern NY -- they're out here -- black men with white females and sometimes with a hispanic female but I don't see them that often. When I met my husband in prison in '96 and as I went to different prisons for visit, THAT is where I became exposed to black men with white females -- I had never seen so many IRR couples in my life until I started going to the visit rooms. That exposure got me used to seeing them.

In my time seeing them in the prisons though, not once have I ever seen anyone treat or regard them in a disrespectful way -- never. Not even by the police, which is enuf to make me wonder that if some say they've received disrespect from other visitors or the police at the facilities, is that just their imagination.

Best wishes to you all, particularly and moreso once your men get released. I think when society begins to start seeing a lot more of them out here that THAT'S when people who haven't been accepting of it will start changing to become more accepting. I think it basically boils down to many just aren't used to seeing it.

The White Nationalists, KKKs, and some of the hateful whites in the southern states where slavery was big, I believe they really need to let it go but because they're so stuck in their ways, I can only see them living on. Their hatred is so scarey that if I were white I'd be petrified to date a Black man in the deep south. Petrified that someone in my family or someone who knew my family would fatally harm my man and then destroy his body and just leave him for whoever to find him. A dark road in the deep south can be a very scarey experience for a Black man dating a white girl. He would definitely have to have a cell phone so I could check on him when he wasn't home at night so I could make sure he's okay. Living that way, every day would be too much for me and that's why I'd either have to move to a place where people are less hateful or, just leave it alone all together. So for you deep south girls, your man is in prison now but once he come home, I feel you girls will be very brave because my chicken butt would be scared to death for his life!

My husband is white and I'm Italian/Hawaiian. It caused alot of problems at first with the guys there. I look mexican and he was called a race trader. We are finally getting past all of that now. I can't believe how petty some of them are. Why should they care who he loves!!! lol

`So for you deep south girls, your man is in prison now but once he come home, I feel you girls will be very brave because my chicken butt would be scared to death for his life!

Ma, you are too much. I won't say that it doesn't happen anymore because as sure as I do, someone would come up with an example. I will say that it is not as bad as the misconceptions. I live in Mississippi and both my husband and ex husband are black. When I got married the first time, it wasn't near as common, but now you can hardly go anywhere (in my area anyway) without seeing people of a different race together. Whether it be a group of friends hanging out, an IR couple or a grandparent with their bi-racial grandbabies in the grocery store, it is everywhere you go. Yeah people are still going to look and be hateful but they are slowly but surely becoming the minority...Thank God.

Hugs,
Amy

:thumbsup: I am mixed white/hispanic and my husband is mixed mexican/black. I guess you can say we are truly mixed both ways. I love him so much and we don't really care whether anybody doesn't like it or not. And yes there are a lot of us out there.

I'm white and my man is hispanic and we have a cute little boy,with a great tan.

I live in Mississippi and both my husband and ex husband are black. When I got married the first time, it wasn't near as common, but now you can hardly go anywhere (in my area anyway) without seeing people of a different race together. Whether it be a group of friends hanging out, an IR couple or a grandparent with their bi-racial grandbabies in the grocery store, it is everywhere you go. Yeah people are still going to look and be hateful but they are slowly but surely becoming the minority...Thank God.

Hugs,
AmySee, this is one of the reasons why I love this forum -- we could learn some things about how things are in other parts of the country. I am so happy that change in the deep south is happening. Thank God is surely right. I was saying in another thread that as we see more IRRs people will get more used to it and things will continue to get better. Hugs back at you. :o

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Mrs. G -- your combination IS a firery one. I would not want to be around when you two have an argument, that's for sure! :D Let me share a short story. I have a cat at home. My son brought home a baby kitten one day -- the cutest thing ever. However, it kept picking and picking at my cat until my cat wrestled it down, then it would chill for a minute, and then pick on my cat again, until my cat wrestled her down again. Because the kitten was so little and so full of spunk it reminded me of a 5'2 Italian man so I named her Little Salvatore. Because Little Salvatore got to be too much, however, we had to give her away but I'll never forget her. :)

Like Mrs G., my hubby is Puerto Rican and I am Italian-American. We also have some spicy tempers, but we vibe like WHOA! I can't wait for us to have kids!!

Wifey-Ma, your story about Lil Salvatore is hysterical! :D

I am German/Irish/American and he is German/Indian/American, and believe me, we have our own kind of fun;)
No, seriously, my extended family has become the United Nations and I look to the day when we can all just say "human" in answer to that question. When I was younger and they asaked about race I always checked "other." Now I take an odd sort of pity on the person who is trying to get the statistics right and check "caucasian."
But I think I may go back to "other" just for fun.

My man is black and I am white. Where I am from interracial relationships seem almost more common that same race relationships. Lucklily I have never really had a problem. One of my ex's stepdad used to call me "white girl" not to my face but to my ex. It's cool thought because we didn't get along anyways because of other reasons. Almost all of my closest friends that I have been tight with for years are black and race isn't ever even an issue or even every brought up.

I am Norwiegen and Middle Eastern. My hunny's German and Italian.
Love, Sheila :)

I am white and hes mixed black and white... So cuteeeeeee!!!!! Oh and my home town is in Western NC, a while back IRR's used to get weird looks, people are coming around. Now I live in a military community and you most never see couples of the same race.

I am as WASPy as they come and Luis is hispanic. And as Kerri said, its wild to have darker skin than him these days!!! We're also "interAGEial" as I am 49 and he is 33. And it's hotter than ever before in my life! Mucho Amor!

I am of Hawaiian, Chinese and Caucasian descent and my guy is half Italian, half German, 100% stubborn. Sad thing is, my guy tans better than I do!!! Hawaii is a total melting pot so you will see lots of interracial relationships. Of course, there are prejudices but for the most part, it's business as usual.

I'm Filipino with a little Chinese and Spanish and my boyfriend is Irish/Italian. No problems in Jersey so far!;)

I so agree Wifey-Ma! But I would die for my convictions and my family (my sister has three biracial babies!) If your hate for me and my choices is that great...so be it. I REFUSE to let anybody other than the good Lord himself change me or scare me into their beliefs.
The White Nationalists, KKKs, and some of the hateful whites in the southern states where slavery was big, I believe they really need to let it go but because they're so stuck in their ways, I can only see them living on. Their hatred is so scarey that if I were white I'd be petrified to date a Black man in the deep south. Petrified that someone in my family or someone who knew my family would fatally harm my man and then destroy his body and just leave him for whoever to find him. A dark road in the deep south can be a very scarey experience for a Black man dating a white girl. He would definitely have to have a cell phone so I could check on him when he wasn't home at night so I could make sure he's okay. Living that way, every day would be too much for me and that's why I'd either have to move to a place where people are less hateful or, just leave it alone all together. So for you deep south girls, your man is in prison now but once he come home, I feel you girls will be very brave because my chicken butt would be scared to death for his life![/color]

LMFAO, Oh I've been called a blue eyed devil more than once. I had an ex's mom that refused to look at me in the face because she thought I was evil.

My man is black and I am white. Where I am from interracial relationships seem almost more common that same race relationships. Lucklily I have never really had a problem. One of my ex's stepdad used to call me "white girl" not to my face but to my ex. It's cool thought because we didn't get along anyways because of other reasons. Almost all of my closest friends that I have been tight with for years are black and race isn't ever even an issue or even every brought up.

I'm a white middle class chic from Europe, he is black-american!

My guy is hispanic and I'm white..

Good Thread!
I am MIXED= Swedish, Shoshoni Native American+a wee bit 'o Irish on Mama's side,
French-Creole (from Loosiana)+ African-American on Daddy's side.
I check OTHER on forms....... Makes 'em wonder.
He is just BLACK from what he tells me. Ha-ha

I say that all of us have a little bit of MIXED in us, unless you can go back till the beginning of time on your family tree and track every single person to the same race, culture, and origin.
In some far-off countries it's possible, maybe.....but I tell some of my cousins who say they are Black to take pride in the fact that they are mixture of races.
Just because your skin is dark doesn't mean you automatically check the Black box. My skin is light and we came from the SAME blood line!

People ask me if my youngest son is mixed with Asian because he's light and his eyes are tight. I tell them he gets his eyes from his dad, who is Black. They always look shocked (especially if they're Asian) like I must be kidding! LOL

Here in Seattle we're a melting pot of every race, color, culture, creed, and country.
EVERYTHING is accepted !!!!!! Seriously, if you've never heard of it before, it's here.

Here in SoCal, if you go a day w/o seeing an IR couple, you must be walking around with your eyes closed! LOL.:D I'm mostly black, part white and my guy is from El Salvador. I've never been one to not go out with a guy because of race. I've been with black guys, white guys, and Hispanic guys. My family always asks me, first thing, the race of my boyfriend when they find out I have one. I usually just tell them it's a guy, nevermind his race. Eventually everyone is going to be mixed anyway, I'm just doing my part to speed up the process a bit! :p LOL

I am west indian(from the country trinidad and tobago) and my husband is white.. and below is our beautifuldaughter which our love and god gave us.... I think i am PTO's first West indian!! We live in Houston texas so we dont have any problems really.. But there are a few out there and for some odd reason i run in to ALL of them. especially the ones who are shocked when they find out that she is really my daughter and i am not her nanny.. :eek: :mad: !! Of course i always got a smart answer for them all.

Basically i dated out of my race all my life cuz where i live the only other west indians were my family members and i wasnt having that.. :D


Jillian

Tony is African-American and I am considered British white but I don't actually like that title as I am a Romani (Gypsy) and I prefer to be recognised as that. My DNA takes me right back to India, which the Romani people left some 1000 years ago, and we have a fascinating history. Tony has loved learning all about my heritage and has been surprised by it, too.

Rose

I'm a white girl and my baby is a hot Mexican...:D

Wow there are not too many same race couples here on PTO. Well I am West Indian on my mom's side (she's from Trinidad and her mom is half Portugese and grandmother pure portugese)On my dad's side I am Cuban and African American. I basicaly say I am just black. The only thing is I don't identify with A.A in New York as most of them are from the South. My sweetie is A.A from the south however his nieces and nephews are bi-racial. Here in NYC you see inter racial couples but not too often. The most I would see growing up was spanish and black. To be honest with you all interacial dating was something I felt really weird about but over the years I have grown more excepting of it. I have a close white girl friend who only dates black men so I got use to that. One of my best friends is engaged to be married to a white woman and I accept his love for her. I guess you can just say I am over it. I basically feel like if it does not affect me and mine do you. I also must say I went down south the last holiday weekend and there were lots of mixed couples. The funny thing was there was also many Confederate flags. It was quite strange to me the openess of it. All I kept thinking if it had been NY someone would have taken that flag and wraped it around the owners neck.

I am white and my honey is black. I couldn't love anyone more than I love him. We have a difference in age also, but it's just numbers. I am 47 and he just turned 29. I met his mom and grandpa over the weekend. His mom cracks me up. She had 2 grandchildren until I come along with 4 kids and 2 grandbabies. LOL I am 3 years older than my future mother in law. They are all cool with it, but even if they weren't....Oh Well!!
We have one race on this earth.....The Human Race.....we all bleed red.

Patti

but we vibe like WHOA! I can't wait for us to have kids!!


marie....YESSSS! :yes: LIKE WHOA! :D

I am white with some German, Italian and Irish. My fiance is black. Here in GA (ATL) it is very common; you see it everywhere you turn. You also see a lot of same race relationships too. Basically you can say we are a mix here in the ATL.

I am white and my man is from honduras.. We have been together 4 years. Here in SC interracial relationships are being more accepted everyday.

I am white and my baby is black...I guess it is becoming more accepted here (as well as other places), but you will always have those who do not "approve." But it doesn't matter, it is my life and I will do as I please!

This is a great forum and a great thread! I love it...

I am African American, Scottish & Saponi Indian & my man is German/Polish

: )

I'm Sara and I'm white and ma husband Antrell is black

My man is black, me, i'm white/my daddy was italian and mom is hungarian....when i say that people are like whatttt??? lol it seems like people forget about hungary.

I am black (mixed with everyhting in between, lots of island blood, french and spanish) and Travis is black and puerto rican......were 2 SPICY people :)

I am Italian/Cree and Raven is Chiricahua Apache

My Husband Is Mixed.....mexican And Black.....and Is As Sexy As They Come....well Me On The Other Hand Is As Black As They Come....hehehehehe

Here in NYC you see inter racial couples but not too often.

NYC is totally interracial though, I know so many interracial couples.

ewife3: there are many west indians here in NYC...

I am white and my man is mixed (black and white). He's the best I could have dreamed of and can't imagine my life without him. Some people don't know what they could be missing out on by being blind to certain people on the basis of nationality and color. I know my man and I are certainly happy and look forward to our future when we can finally be together again they way we were. I wish the same happiness for others. It's unimaginable.

Both Latinos

I am white (Pale as anything:p ) and Sam is black. It's no big deal here in Boston either.

I am white and my man is Lakota Sioux.

My baby is hispanic and I am white

Hey ladies..I got one for you. See I am black and my man is black but I am the first black woman he was EVER been with in his life!! So this is a whole new thing for him...this is interesting...he really doesn't know how to deal with somethings that I do and have to go through. He was in a nice rich area all of his life, so he only dated white women, now..he is with me and I am just a tad bit different from the "norm" for him.

Mexican /Mexican

I am white. My husband is black.

I am Mexican & German my man is Black.:heart:

I'm a strong woman and Damon is a strong black man and I love the way we look together, we are beautiful together. I have a daughter who's father is white and looking back I wasn't happy because I wasn't ME!! My daughter is beautiful and love her with all that I have but I would love to be a mother to some beautiful mixed children as well.

I am white (Irish/Italian) and my fiance is black. We also have an age difference I am 39 and he is 26. I live in a small town, almost all white people but today I saw an IR couple that was moving in down the street. And there is one black family here in town too. There is only about 800 people in my town. It's nice to see it changing.

My husband is full blood Native American. Much to the older generation of the Pima side of his family's dismay, he married a crazy Texas blonde. He says they may as well, get over it! I was raised, in a racial area of Texas and it is nice to see the world changing...........

I am a Black Woman and my baby is a Gorgeous Italian Man.

We turn heads in the visiting room, we're the odd ones out. It is usually white girls with black men:)

i am white and my baby is black

I'm white and my baby is Mexican(south of the border)

KarrieMI

I am white and my baby is black...I really don't notice the stares much anymore...I think it's becoming more and more acceptable THANK GOD

I AM CUBAN AND BLACK AND FORGGY IS MEXICAN....
WE LOOK A LITTLE DIFFRENT AS YOU CAN SEE FROM ARE SIGGY!:)

Im Mexican And My Man Is Black

I'm a white cuban girl. My husband is black and gorgeous. His name is "Tojo" which is japanese for warrior. He practices tai-kwon-do. he is in great shape. I love him and yes, we turn heads in the visitation room as I used to model in Miami and was a "hooters girl" yes, how tacky now that I look back on it......;)

I'm cuban and my husband is black. He's gorgeous. Love him. We also turn heads in the visitation room. I modeled when I was younger and he has a great body and is so handsome! even if we wasn't handsome, I would love him anyways. He has a great soul and a big.........heart! :)

I am hispanic( i think i have some spaniard (sp) and indian and I am pale as a ghost when not tanning) and he is black ( well skin color is red with freckles ) he's grandmother was indian and that bout all i know

I am white and my man is black... Very accepted in this are, basically its all you see around here is white females with black men.

But Love definitley has no color.

I am black/hispanic/west indian and manny is puerto rican. Where we live,people like us grow up next to each other. our city is very segregated, but also very racially mixed inthe black and hispanic areas.

manny himself is the product of a white hispanic mother and black hispanic father.

I am Black and my man is White (Italian)

he is black but of Moorish descent i am Arab but with 1 Jewish ancestor, we are both Muslims.:) :thumbsup:

" Race " is a myth. His skin is black, mine is white. There are cultural differences between us, sure. But we are both of the HUMAN RACE!!!!!!!
Love, Peace and Blessings to All

My husband and I are both mixed. We are both French, Spanish, Native American and Afo- American.

This is my first time posting in this room although I've visted a few times--anyway Talofa,:wave: I'm Samoan/Figian and my lifer is black.

We are both of the human race!! However, the state of Virginia would designate me as white (blonde hair, blue eyes) and has chosen to designate him as black (dark hair, brown eyes) despite our matching skin tones. (LOL), We laugh though because people at church are always trying to tell his mother and I how much we look alike. We have a combined family of his two kids and my two kids. ( maybe we will be blessed with one of our own). When I take the kids out people just assume they are siblings and I am the mom to all four.

My man is black and I am Italian. We are both extremely attractive people. Where we are from in AZ... you see alot of bi racial couples... but you still get some stares. There is alot of hate out here from black woman who do not like white woman dating "their men"... and my baby says he gets some **** for being with me, mostly because he is so fine and woman of ALL colors want him, so they try to down our relationship. I get alot of men trying to pull the race card when hitting on me too, but it is SO stupid and I just look at them and say "U will NEVER get p***y (edited per PTO policies) from ANY girl unless u come up with some better pick up lines than that." When I first met his family, they were cool with me and showed ALOT of love, but some of his sister's friends I have heard talk **** behind my back. When we were at a family gathering, we were all playing spades, and I beat this black lady, and she had a fit about the "white girl" winning, she swore up and down i was cheating... it was too funny! I just laugh because people assume I can't play cards because of my skin tone!! Also, recently his sister told me that she had never wanted her brother to be with anything but black woman, but that now I am the ONLY one she wants to see her brother with! It is awesome when you can change someone prejudice just by showing them who you are. My family on the other hand.. NEVER had a problem with my man... they are the most wonderful people in this world! And taught me to not even know what "color" is. We were all created by God... so what's the big deal?

my story is a lil bit different i think cuz i always dated african americans and the person in the pic is not my man YET ... we are best friends and working on moving to the next level :D its been hard since we are best friends that discovered that we both want more while he is in prison but we wont let that stop us so right now i would say we are bestest friends with more than enough potential to be together forever ;) oh yeah i am german and his is afro american as you can see!!!

I am white and my husband is meduim brown skinned

LOVE HAS NOCOLOUR

I am a black and my bf is white....He hasnt told anyone in there due to the fact most of his friends are supremists.

I am white/black/native american and my fiancé is white. With my mixture, it's almost impossible not to have an interracial relationship! :) Such relationships are not looked down upon where I live, but I either don't see many or have become so accustomed to seeing them that I don't realize it.

I'm white & my husband is black. We get some stares, but then he's slim & I'm chunky so maybe it's that. It's never bothered me. I love him for the contents not the cover. Don't get me wrong I LOVE the cover too.:p

You are crazy girl but I feel you!!!! My husband is the tall, built sexy one and me, I got a little thicker then I would like to be. He is Black and Cherokee and I am Black Sicilian and Mexican and our daughter is all that. Can you say VOLITILE mix???? She is absolutely beautiful though. We live in Cali and it is common out here but it never fails that we run into problems when there is a Black female officer working visiting. He is about as radical as a Panther in the 60’s and me I am hella light skinned. So it makes for all kinds of stares. But oh well, I love him like I love to breathe.
I'm white & my husband is black. We get some stares, but then he's slim & I'm chunky so maybe it's that. It's never bothered me. I love him for the contents not the cover. Don't get me wrong I LOVE the cover too.:p

i'm black,my man's mexican and his step-son is 1/4 mexican and 3/4 black. We live in Houston so it's not really a problem. A lot of hispanic girls/guys stare . maybe they think i'm dominican?

I am half white and half hispanic.... My Cowboy is from Kansas and he is a TRUE NOT WANNABE COWBOY (I am talking hot ass tight Wranglers, chewing tobbacco the whole nine yards and that Cowboy hat is glued to his head:D ) But MY SHAUN is white and mostly Irish decent (Mr. and Mrs. McGovern):thumbsup:

I am 1/2 Mexican and 1/2 Italian. My husband is 1/2 Mexican and 1/2 Irish

I'm half white and half mexican and my man is white.

i am like mostly mexican and part italian, Scott is just a edited per PTO policies our daughter got the best of us both, though.

um i didn't think that word was that bad, but scott is white. sorry for the confusion!:o

I'm white and my husband is black. I know aLOT of people don't like it, but we don't pay them much attention.

My husband is black and I'm white, I wouldnt change it or have it any other way. I'm competley happy and we are the best of friends. Without a doubt its alot more common now then it was even 4 yrs ago, yes of course we all still get those occasional stairs and wonder what are they doing together. me personally I feed on it, and think they are just envious.

I am white and my man is 100% Puerto Rican the first i've ever been with and so far the best....

I am white and my husband is Mexican born and raised there. I am 59 he is 35 we have been together for 9 years, 4 of those as husband and wife.

robert's black and i'm white. My first husband (died in 94) was black and I have four children. All with beautiful brown skin which is really irritating :cool: -- me, I THINK of going out in the sun I turn red... then peel... am white again... go out in the sun... turn red... peel... white again... just ain't fair!! :D

I'm 46 and have gotten use to the stares and disapproving looks. I never "fit in" anyway so it was never a big deal to me.

My next to oldest daughter (22) is with a Mexican. I believe some day they'll marry. Nothing like multi-culture in my family. I love it :thumbsup: !

I am hispanic (Puerto Rican) and my husband is black. :) I haven't seen this section of PTO before, how interesting, I didn't realize I was fcing a challenge because of our Inter.Rel. Oh.... I hope I don't too many issues.

My husband is black and I am white. I live in south Arkansas where the people are very prejudice but we have been together now 7 years and married for 1 year. We have gotten used to the fact that the old people are set in their ways and not agree with IRR. But love conquers all and when we all get to heaven we will be together no matter what race we are. I love my husband with all my heart.

Well...I am white (50% German, and a mix for the other 50%)...and my man is Puerto Rican and Italian!! And da*n sexy!!!

white myself and black my man

I AM HISPANIC AND ITALIAN HE IS WHITE. WEVE BEEN TOGETHER 9 YRS AND HAVE A 2YR OLD DAUGHTER, HE IS 26 I AM 24 ...WE MET IN HIGH SCHOOL.

I'm mexican and my man's mixed (mom's mexican & dad's white)

Well lets see I am white....irish/english and my hubby is full blooded Cree...

I am White and he is Black. There are many couples like that in my town, but he is currently close to St. Louis and from Memphis and I R couples are not as accepted there as they are here. He hopes to move here when he is released.

I'm hispanic and my husband is black

I am white,my guy is black...

Im latino an white..he's black..:p

Im German and my guy is from India :-) We have two girls and are expecting our third one ....

I think I am white (I was adopted so I am not sure) and he is a handsome Mexican man. We communicate entirely in Spanish which at times can be hard because even though I am fluent, there are words that i do not know and on the phone and in letters it is hard for him to explain to me something I don't understand. But with love and patience we will make it through. Some people in our community used to frown on us but I have been with him so long that I don't even notice anymore.

my husband anb i are both black

I Am A Chicana And So Is My Man. But When It Somes To Love Ethnicity Doesn't Exist. When You Find Your Other Half Just Enjoy It To The Fullest.

wow there are alot of Interracial couples here..

Mary we all understand that ethnicity doesnt exist if we didnt we wouldnt be dating out of our race .. We were just seeing all who are in mix relationships

I am filipina (asian) and my husband is black.

We're just two lil' mexicans!! LOL But for me that strange cause I have always since I was a 1st grader, dated white boys!! LOL and now here I am, who would have thought!

But I love my lil' mexican with all my heart!!

This one is a new one...Im Cambodian and my Husband is Half Black and Half Samoan...We have a 7 month old baby boy together..I'm a light tanned color..and my Husband is a dark tanned color...My family thought that my son was going to come out looking dark lol but to thier surprise he was pretty light...but as days pass on by he is getting pretty darker like his daddy...

He's Chocolate and I am a LITTLE TAN...:) ok so not really (VANILLA it is.. )

i'm black (jamaican), my bf is irish.

I Am White And My Man Is Mexican

i'm asian really light skinned my husband is puerto rican darker skinned.

I'm white and My man is Mexican. Love him

I am black and my fiance is latino ( a sexy spaniard). He is my world, and where I'm from it's pretty accepted, we get a few stares, but I happen to like it. I love when older hispanic women and black men roll their eyes at us. I like to show my man off. IR couples are accepted here, but you very seldon see black women dating outside of their race, so we are very few in number.

my man is black and i am white. my 8 yr old daughter says i am a black woman trapped in a white womans body. she says that about any white female with a black man

i'm white he's native american. :)

I am white and my man is bi-racial (mom>white & dad>west indies).

I'm white, my boo is sexy black......And I also have a beautifullllllllll 1/2 black 1/2 white 4 year old little boy he's says mommy I'm black so I let him think what he wants!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Im white my boyfriend is Dominican

I am black and my husband is white. I havn't had too many problems here and there maybe. None from the prison.

im white and my fiance is black and i guess we had some problems at first but it think things are getting better... we have a mixed baby together who is almost 3 and she is more darker then lighter... but everyone always asks me stupid things like how is that your baby and i jus blow it off...she was made out of love and thats all that matters

I am white (Polish to be exact) and my fiance is Puerto Rican. Around where we live, it's acceptable... but not to mommy and daddy!

i am white (Sicilian and russian) and my husband is Puerto Rican....he was born there...Our daughters, let them tell it, they are Puerto Rican and only Puerto Rican!!!

i am mexican, and where i come from everyone sticks to their own race so i never dated anyone who wasn't hispanic until i met danny. danny had never dated outside of his race either. he's white.

now i wouldn't have it any other way and im glad we both peeked outside the box and found eachother!

I'm black/puerto rican and he's white/mexican....lol I wonder what our kids will look like! We live in northern California and yes I get dirty stares all the time from black men, older black couples, and white people. It drives me nuts but I don't care, I'm used to it, I've always been in interracial relationships. My ex had a shirt that said, "keep staring, i might do a trick" LoL! That cracked me up! :thumbsup:

im puerto rican and my baby is italian

i am creole :thumbsup: and he is black :thumbsup: ...
creole is french/spanish of black decent...we speak french...french last name everything...cajuins and creoles are from louisiana only.
and well u already know what black is...lol :p ;)
my man loves my spice and i love this chocolate skin!:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :)

my love is black and i am hispanic & puerto rican :thumbsup:

I am white and my fiance is black, wouldnt have it any other way..We got the looks the stares, the comments, and the hate..We survived it and our love is stronger now than ever.

I am white and my fiancee is black and as far as I am concerned I feel as if love also has no color also. I wouldn't care if the man was purple.

Im black and indian and my man is white and black, and its funny that we still get they eye from others.

I am white and my fiance is black. We live in North Carolina i am orginally from Ohio. My family accepted him right at the beginning. His family is great too.

I am Native American (full Navajo) and he is half white/Mexican. We've never given it a second thought about our races, only that we are what we are...two people in love! :) But I do get a lot of people who talk Spanish to me right off the bat! I have to tell them, I speak Navajo (and English, of course), not Spanish...LOL Here in the Phoenix area, interracial couples are all over. I've pretty much just dated white men (although my kids' fathers are Navajo) since moving here. Then I met my honey (after 8 years apart) again and here we are...more in love than ever! :)

I am white and my husband is mixed. Its accepted here more now than it used to be, but go ahead and ask me if I care? Lettem look! We have each other and two beautiful boys together. What more do I need. (Except maybe for my husband to hurry up and come home)!!!

I am white and my fiance is black. We have been together for 5 years. I live in Jacksonville. It is not that big of a deal here, although we do sometimes get stares. but I really could care less b/c they are nobody to me! And they were just raised ignorant!!!
Jennifer

i am whit and my hunny is mixed my x husband was black and the only grief i ever got from ppl was from the black women in his "hood" saying he was a sellout and i should go back to white men and leave "their" men alone but everyone is entilted to their own opoion but sometimes it should be kept to theirself

I am white and my fiance is black. We have been together for 5 years. I live in Jacksonville. It is not that big of a deal here, although we do sometimes get stares. but I really could care less b/c they are nobody to me! And they were just raised ignorant!!!
Jennifer

You go girl!!!!:thumbsup:

I am white and my man is hispanic

I'm Pr & Italian (white) And My Husband Is Black, Who Cares What Society Thinks Unfortunatley We Are Pretty Much The Norm Now, Yes True 20 Yrs Ago There Wasnt As Much Of Ir Couples As There Is Today, But Its Like A Everyday Thing Now. You Cant Help Who You Love Or Who You Have Feelings For, And Sometimes People Are Just Going To Have To Deal With It And Move Forward, This Is Something I Have Dealt With My Entire Life And Im Not About To Change It For Anyone. I Love My Husband And Wouldnt Care If He Was Purple I Would Still Be With Him And Love Him Like I Do Now.

Im Black.... My Moms Puetro Rican And Black.
My Dads Black
My Honey Is Mexican

I am Indian and my boyfriend is black, which is totally unacceptable within my family! But our love is strong and we will make it through this and whatever else comes our way!

I am white & my man is Mexican. Get no crap from any one about race. Just that he's an inmate.

I Am Mexican And Black But Look Black And With A Hispanic Vary Light Papi Chulo..and Proud Of It.. :-]

I'm mexican and native american and My baby's daddy is mixed black and white. Every man I've ever been with has been black. I love Detroit because there's all sorts of mixed races and most of evra one is excepting.:cool:

Hello everyone... I've been reading this forum for sometime now... I just like to tell you that I'm white and my honey is Puerto Rican and so sexy.

I am white and my fiance is black.

I am white and my man is black

I am Asian and my husband is Black :)

I am white and my husband is hispanic

I am white and my fiance is black.

My husband is Mexican and I'm black.

I'm white...my baby is colombian

I am white and my baby is black....I live in Philly and even though there are many inter racial relationships around here, we still aren't accepted but...as long as we're happy all the negative people can kiss my A**!!

I am white and my man is a sexy dark chocalate doing time in Hutchins State Jail in Dallas. We have been together since we were 14 years old. Actually it is our 9 year anv. this month and I am so excited because he will be home any day now. We have two beautiful children and hope to marry upon his release.

Im white my husabnd is white but I have a lot of mixed/couples that are great freinds of mine and i dont think nothing of them being of diffrent races my biggest dissapointment is waiting on him to pop the question to her lol i will be just as excited as she will!!!!!

I am persian/white and my hubby is black. Never had any problems with it cuz I've always dated black men. His cousin lived with me for a while, and when we got into a fight and he chose my side over hers, she got upset and made a comment about how she wouldn't be as upset about his choice if it was over a black girl instead. I could care less about her opinion though, because she is trash. The most important person to me is him, and the most important family member's approval was his mama, and she loves me to death. She has seen her son in and out of the system for the majority of his life, and seen him lose a lot of girlfriends. But we are married and i made a promise in front of God that I'd stay for better and for worse.. and I'm serious! I am the first "real" non-black girlfriend he has ever had... when i say real.. we all know men can have sex with a woman without a relationship. All that matters to him and I is our love.. plus there is a physical attraction like no other!

im hispanic and by man is white. he is just so in love with mexicans.

im black and my man is hispanic he will be coming home in exactly 86 days and i can`t wait

First of all we are all human, we just happen to be different. I am white and my wonderful husband is black. He is my protector, my friend, my life, my lover, my confidant, my everything. Exactly what I would expect out a MAN in general. Where we live, we still get looks but its not nothing that stops you from loving who you love. Receiving the gift of his love was the greatest gift, I am just jealous that he has a better tan.

im mexican and my man is white

I'm white and my booby is black, of course, I have never dated a white guy, don't know why, it just isn't my thing. I think interracial relationships are beautiful, it has meaning and potential to change the world right!! I have 2 mixed children, beautiful and wonderful.

My boo is mixed white/black and I am black. I do love him truely. i m all for IR relationships.:yay:

We are both Hispanics. And I love all Races.

I'm Filipino and he's black.

We are both from the HUMAN one :D

I am white and my man is black. And we live in California, which makes it pretty much normal for us

Im new to the site, so first of all just wanted to say "HI" =)

But to answer the question.....Im hispanic & my baby is Vietnamese. =)
A very HOT one I might add ;)

:thumbsup:

I am white and my baby is black. We don't really care about what anyone says or the "looks" we get--we are very happy together and that's all that matters.

my babe is black and i'm white and i have had both before; relationships with black and white men. u don't look at colour when u fall in love.

I AM WHITE MY HUSBAND IS MEXICAN mmmmmmmm

I 2nd that KateUK!!! We're both from the Human One :D .

I always answer the 'racial question' with actual ethnicity (what we know of, at least):

I have dominant Serbian heritage, combined with French, Irish, German, English, and probably a lot more that I'm uncertain about.

My husband has Jamaican, African, and Creole Indian heritage (unsure of the order)

Here's one to throw ya for a loop! I'm Puerto Rican and my husband is Belizean. We're both caribbean, and a huge mix. So, our 2 little daughters are Super mixed, hahahaha. ;-P

I Am White And My Husband Is Black,, We Havent Really Had Any Problems With A I/r Because Their Is Alot Of It Here

Well I'm hispanic and white my man I mean husband we just got married on the 22nd of Jan. is black and we have a 3 year old lil boy he is a living doll. And yea it isn't a big deal in Cali but my ex who I have 3 boys with who are very handsom also, he flipped out he is hispanic.Not that I cared we hadden't been together in 6 years. LOL

:D My sweetness is black...and he of all people asked me why I prefer, black men...I said I didn't no I had....Ihad been married for several years,to my childrens father,,,he is white and after 25yrs we divorced..My kids were grown and I dated a black man that I loved dearly....Color was not an issue we loved each other..He passed last year after a long illness..out of loneliness I started corresponding to this gentleman..and we wrote for a long time never exchanging pic's I was hesitant becaause I am older then he,,,he was hesitant be cause he had an idea I was white...I finally broke down and told him..sent him my picture..and we wrote for a long time,,and fell so in love..Then he decided to bite the bullet and send me his picture and I told him he was ever so handsome[for which he is]lol He told me he was afraid I wouldn't write anymore because of his color I told him don't be ridicules the man I was with prior was ,black...from there he assumed I just have a prferance to black men...lol I said no I just have a preferance to you...My sugar bo...lol

I'm mixed - white/black - my love is white

I'm mixed-Spanish/Asian and my baby is white. He grew up in the south where he said it's not so common to see people other then white or black, but when he got here to Cali he said he couldn't beleive how many beautiful women of different races there are. (:

WE ARE BOTH HISPANIC.........................

we'll im black and my boo is dominican
and no matter what i love him

JILove

I am white and my man is black. It is pretty normal around here now, but when i was younger it wasn't. Then all of a sudden it became the thing to do. I've never dated a man of my own race.

I am white, my man is black. I am from the deep south where interacial couples aren't accepted well.

Well I am mixed(black and cuban) and my Baby is Uruguayan(hispanic), but he looks white. All I know is, he's my Baby and the color of our skin doesn't impact our relationship one way or the other. I love him for the person that he is and how he treats me and it's the same for him.

I am white and my man/daughters father is black. It is expected here, but
I feel anywhere that u go at least someone will look at u the wrong way..our world is just crazy and messed up!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am white and my man is italian/peruvian

I'm black, my sweeti is a american indian. We can't wait to see the beautiful baby we will have together in the future

I am white and he is sooooo SEXILY hispanic!, it is very accepted here in MA actually majority of couples over here i think are interacial! I dont think it would matter if people didnt accept it..... I do and thats all that matters!

im white and my man is native and also part black somewhere in the mix lol

He's Hispanic and I'm Caucasian. We get more stares and comments because I'm 6'1" and he's 5'2".

I am white and my husband is black, I also have 2 bi racial children. I live in Dallas and it is okay here. Not to many people trip anymore!!!

Im a mutt (german cherokee rican black) and my man is mexican.

My fine sexy man is Black and I am white and we have the most beutiful baby gurl ever. Theres one thing I have to say about IRR " Race aint nothin but a color".
Much love to those of you who follow your heart.
One day we will all be the same race. maybe not in my life time, but atleast I know I contributed.

I'm white and my "husman" is black/mexican. I'm in Columbus Ohio where now it's the norm to see interracial couples/marriages.

I, too, like the majority in this thread am white. My man is black. It does not matter what others think of us, we accept it. When I see other mixed couples, it just makes me miss my man even more.

I'm white and my man is Puerto Rican .... emm he is so fine.. we have a daughter together and she is absolutely beautiful

I'm mixed (White/ Puerto Rican) & my boyfriend is black...'Nuff said. ;)

I'M BLACK AND MY MAN IS MIXED (BLACK / WHITE) :thumbsup:

My baby is half indian and half Mexican.

I am white and the love of my life is Black. It really isn't accepted in the community i live in, but it's hush hush. Whispering and all that bull!@#$. No one really says anything aloud if ya know what I mean. We can't help who we fall in love with. God made each and every one of us.

Most defnitely feeling you on that. Here in WV there are lots of stares and whispers if you date a black man.

Well my baby is Dominican and I'm African American.

JILOVE

My husband is puerto rican and Hatian. i'm white. we get stared at alot in the visiting room at the prison he is in. we live in iowa. it really sucks but when you are in love it doesn't matter.

. . . Here in WV there are lots of stares and whispers if you date a black man.
Well if any of yall want to migrate north to Southern NY we'll welcome you but there's one condition: You gotta contribute to the annual PTO Fundraiser on behalf of NY once you get here so that one of these years we can win that years worth of bragging rights!!:D Anybody game? :D Hey, I'm getting desperate because we're in third place and I want us to come in FIRST!! :D

My man is black and I am mexican american

My Hubby is Puerto Rican/black and I am black. To me he just looks like a light skinned black. Kinda like Armageddon from Terror Squad. our son is VERY fair skinned which is weird. People think I'm his nanny:)

I am Mexican/White and he is Black.

My Baby Is Puerto Rican And I'm Black Here In Nyc Its No Big Thing But U Do Get Some Stares Lo0ol

I am White, my guy is Hispanic, my son is white and his wife is black. None of us has experienced any problems because of this.

I am white and my husband is black. We're in southern Louisiana. Although mixed couples are fairly common here now, we still get strange looks in the visiting shed. We don't care. BWAHAHahahahahaha

LifeTravler

I'm german and mexican. my fiancee is black. We are both from California and it's pretty much the norm here.

I am black and my boyfriend is white

I am white and my fiance is Chinese. My exhusband is Chinese, and I have a son who is half white and half Chinese. God Bless!
Mandy

Hi..i'm african american and my man is white and mexicano.but the color we both see is uncondtional

I am white and my man is black. I have dated black men for the past 10 years. I have two children who are mixed. So for me I haven't had a big issue with it. But this is the first time my man has been in an interracial relationship. So he is a lil worried about the reaction we will get. Like Light Traveler said, we do tend to get some looks while on our visits together. And I just love every minute of it. :D My Boo Boo is beginning to enjoy it too! lol

I'm white and my boyfriend's black. It's not accepted very well where I'm from but I'm not worried about what anybody else has to say about what I do. My dad told me I better not ever date a black guy and that's exactly what I've done since I was 14. Now I'm 21 and have a 3 year old mixed daughter.
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i'm mexican/white and he is black. it makes me very happy to see IR couples because it isn't seen very often where i live. i know that i am probably one of the very few in my community who agree with IR relationships.

Well, Im white and my boyfriend is filipino/mexican. Its pretty common here to be in an interracial relationship.

i am white and my baby is black.

I am white and my man is black. But unless someone brings it up I dont notice it. I just see my fine man.

I am caucasian and my husband is african american. My parents are very unaccepting of him but who cares about their opinions. I am the one that loves him.

I'm white and my husband is black. Most of my family has a problem with the fact that he's black, and his mom has a problem with the fact that I'm white, but we deal with it... We love each other, and that is all that matters. :):love:

I'm white and my fiancee is mexican...My parents opinion doesn't matter to me, but they aren't too fond of him.

I am white and my fiancé is black.

Im black amd I have a hispanic boyfriend first it was wierd because people stared at us now we laugh at the people and say babe look at that lady looking at us. They will take a look at the whole family and analyze us. i have a son from a previous relationship so the stare hard. We have a beautiful 4 year old daughter and another child on the way so I say f--- them.

I am white and my boo is black. I really haven't had any problems, or at least I haven't noticed any. My family has always accepted the fact that I am attracted to black men, so I don't have any family issues. My sister is married to a black man and they have 2 beautiful little girls. I also have a bi-racial son.

I am white and my husband is a fine handsome black man who i adore

My husband is Black and I am White. It is some what excepted where I live but not nearly as much as it should be. Pretty much my entire family has disowned me. I love him and there is nothing in this world that can change that.

I am white and my husband is black. I have been dating interrationally for many years. Here is GA it is VERY common.

Oops.. wrong thread... oh I am white and he is black :)

Tony is African-American and I am considered British white but I don't actually like that title as I am a Romani (Gypsy) and I prefer to be recognised as that. My DNA takes me right back to India, which the Romani people left some 1000 years ago, and we have a fascinating history. Tony has loved learning all about my heritage and has been surprised by it, too.

Rose

I am White - American, but my roots go back to Finland where I also have Romani (Gypsy) in me. I get asked all the time by Middle Eastern American's if I am Mediterrianen - I say no, Finnish and I can see how confused they look! The Romani (Gypsy) history is very intersting! My man is African-American (Black) but also has a lot of other things mixed in him. We have a beautiful son together.

I'm white and my boyfriend is Asian

Im Hispanic An Wht My Hubby Is Blk . .

There Is Alot Of I/R Where Iam At But You Will Always Have The Ppl Who Say U Should Stick With Ya Own Race , Thats Any Where Unfortunally: (

I'm white and my fiance' is black. I have never dated out of my race before and never thought I would--not prejudiced, just because. I live in South Georgia and many people still do not accept IR relatiionships. My parents certainly do not and they do not know. They would be unaccepting just because he is in prison, add the fact he is black and OMG they would disown me! I'm 47 and he will be 43 in a few days. When he gets out, we're going to try and handle this as easily as possible. He wants them to like him for him and show them how much he loves me and go from there. I don't think of him as a black man or an inmate--he is just the handsome, sexy man I love with all my heart!

HI,

Yes, I do notice more interracial couples now in my area than even 10 years ago. I was born and raised in Springfield, Tennessee. This is a very small town and interracia couples were a big NO NO. Over the past years I have seen more of this openly. I for one am in an Interracial relationship. My fiancee' is incarcerated about 3 hours from me, but will be released on parole on August 21, 2006. The prison he is at is to me racisist. We are singled out quiet often.

Also, my brother is married to a woman of color and they have two small adorable children. When others take a peek or talk low about us, I simply ignore it. I'm happy, he's happy and that's all that matters.

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I am curious as to just how many different ( and I say different because we are not society's "norm") couples there are? My husband is black and I am white. I want everyone here to know that there are more out there then what we think. It is more common now then say 20 years ago. Do you notice more mixed couples around where you live now?

im white and my b/f is black.he is the first black man i have dated. I dont know about anyone else but being with him is great its so different.i was married about 8years ago and being with michael is so different. i dont know if its cause we are old now or what. he treats me like a queen both in and out of bed:) .we live in nh some people will give a looks but most people dont really care. his mom is black and his dad is white they got married in 1964 and i figure if they could make it all these years we can to.

I am white, my man is black. I've never dated a white man, just always attracted to the darker skin I guess. This is his first interracial relationship. I have two biracial children who are gorgeous! It's getting better here in NY. (upstate)

I am white, my husband is black. We have been married for 18 years and have 4 bi-racial children. We are from a very small red-neck country town in TX where it was not accepted 18 years ago, but since we've grown up there, and have been together so long, it's more accepted now

Hi everyone,
I am white and my baby is black. I feel love has no color and color has no bearance on who I am loving. I live in Owensboro KY and I have noticed a few interracial couples but feel this city is backwards to start with. I am originally from Biloxi MS and there are more interracial couples than one would believe there. Like I said love has no color and the world needs to realize this. Might be a way better place to live. He makes me so happy that my family that knows has accepted that they cannot change how I feel or control who I love.

If God brings you to it he will help you through it.

MISSING MY SOULMATE CLUB #74

Hey everyone.. I am white and my husband is black. Where I live (southwest florida) it's not common whatsoever.. It is a older community. we get lots of looks and comments. He is from louisville, kentucky and that is where I am moving to soon especially since he is locked up in kentucky. And when we visit there I notice it is very common there! you guys are right love knows no color!

I am white and my baby is black and we have a beautiful daughter together. I have been dating black men for 10 years now and I wouldn't have it any other way. My parents thought that they could stop it before, but they gave up. Being that I have three mixed children I guess they finally realized they couldn't do anything about it. And now they are all for me being happy with my man.

I am white and my man is black. I have never dated a white man either. My daughter's father is also black (if you want to see a picture of my Beautiful Princess just to to my profile to get to my My Space).

i am dutch, indonesian, blackfoot indian, and south african and my man is 1/4 white and 3/4 black.(his mom is 1/2 white and 1/2 black and his pops is black). I grew up in Newport News Va so i mean me and Lucky got comments from ignorant ******* ans dudes once in awhile but you know what they say ..... let the jealous ones envy....... but im light so as far as people concerned ima straight up white girl. we heard the jungle fever comments alot from his ex but thats why shes an ex!!! people in Newport News and the whole 757 tho have no real problems with it but then again its a college, military area.

I am black and my boyfriend is white... My family is ok with it and so is his but and its very common to see black men with white women here (Ohio/WV) but not the reverse. I have no idea why. I love my baby for who he is and when he gets out i know we will get looks and i will smile and be like yes my baby is fine... :)

I think it might be my big butt because the black guys love me (laughing). I am a white female with a black man. Are family's are cool with it-just as long as we're happy, they're happy. I'm in the upstate NY area and there's a little of everything around, it's mostly accepted but sometimes you get the people giving you looks but I don't care. As far as I'm concerned we're we all bleed the same color and God only knows what you have in your family down the line-so don't hate!

I am white and my baby is black...It was "tolerated (but really disliked)" where we used to live because we were both well known in the small town, but now I live in a real city where race dosen't matter because everybody has their own lives to live and stay in their own business, not ours. Its much better here!! I can't wait till he gets home to experience this too!!

Hey I am white and my baby is black.. In florida it is very acceptable -

He is Mexican, I am white. This is going to sound kinda weird, but I didn't even think about it being an "inter-racial" relationship. That we were actually two different races. I guess I thought of it more as a cultural thing than race. Either way, though, I just love him! My ex-husband was black so the race thing was obvious...he was also from a very rural area which was an even bigger difference than our color ever was!

My husband is black and I am white... I have only been with one white man in my life and that was 15 years ago. I honestly don't even care anymore if it is accepted. I don't pay attention to haters. I have some personal issues about certain inter-racial things... but I will leave that alone for now. Anyway it is becoming very common and I think that in 100 years everyone will be a beautiful shade of brown... =)

i'm white and my boyfriend is mexican. we don't really have any problems because of it though since we live in texas.

Same as most - I am white (Sicilian actually), he is black. I am also 17 years older, but only look 10 years older. Thank you Jesus for oily skin. LOL. The guards are the ones who treat us differently. And I love his family. I share every single Saturday w/them. I love my man & will not let color, family or ignorant people stand in the way of our happiness.

My David is a beautiful black man, and I am white. Two out of three of my white sons accept David, but my middle son won't even mention his name without saying nasty things about him. Him being locked up doesn't help much either. I love him so much, I'm in it with him forever no matter what. I love David for his heart, not his skin color. I often wish ignorance was painful, cuz there would be some hurtin puppies around here!

im white and my bf is native american. ive dated mostly white guys in the past but native guys are so much better looking lol!

I'm native american(cherokee) and black and my fiance's italian

i am asian and he is caucasian...not so much difference when it comes to personality although at first culture difference was an issue but now we passed on that stage and we both believe, sooner or later, interracial relationship will be highly acceptable, what important is we both love each other and we compliment & completely complete each other inspite of the trial that we are experiencing right now...goodluck to all of us guys! take care and God bless...~che

I am white and my boyfriend is black. My family is dealing with it. I have been married twice before. My first marriage was to a white guy and we had two kids now 17 and 15 years old. My second marriage was to a black guy and we had one kid and she is now 13 years old. So my family excluding my boyfriend is multiracial in itself. We have learned not to look at color but at who people are. I am blessed.

I am 100% white. Jason is 50% Samoan (father's side) and 50% Black (mother's side). We are in So. California and have never really heard racial comments.

i am black, my hubby is caucasian and hispanic (perfect mix...i have the best of 3 worlds :) )...i rarely notice black women with white and/or hispanic men...i usually see it the other way around. we don't get too many racial comments, but they pop up every now and again...mainly for him being with a black woman...

I am white He is black and our daughter is simply beautiful:p

I am white and he is black, but we are both part of the human race!

Im white and puerto rican, and my man is black and cuban. A dash of this, a pinch of that... equals perfection. lol.

Im Aboriginal Australian and he is American Indian
I think our ancestors played match maker from the skies :D

"I add my breath to your breath,
that our days may be long on the Earth,
That the days of our people may be long,
that we shall be as one person,
that we may finish our road together."

Laguna Pueblo People

I'm a Cornish Celt(white) and he is an American Indian(Okanogan/Umatilla).. : )

Hello Ladies...i Am A Proud Latina And My Husband Is Black/italian...ummmm Yummy...

I'm white and my man is black/alaska native and gorgeous!!!! :D

Ok So... My man is white and so am I.. But this is the FIRST white man I have ever been with... Crazy huh?... Well, I have 2 children that are half blk.... But me and my baby are holding it down....Hes proud of calling my children his kids... Isnt my baby awesome?....AWWWW!!!!

okay i am italian and he is black an where i am from interracial dating is accepted

I am black mixed (my dad is half East Indian and black and my mom is 1/3 Spanish, Chinese and Black) and my papi is Hispanic. I can't wait to see this gene pool!!! There is hardly any racism towards mixed race couples here in the UK.

Hi I'm white (irish/italian) and my babyboy is black and cherokee, and yeah England is very open minded to all races mixed or otherwise.

I'm white... he's black. It's not really "accepted" by my family (just my dads side). But, I can't help who I fall in love with, and I'm very happy, so they'll just have to accept.

I am black and my man is puerto rican and dominican.

hello I am White and as you can see my Boo is Blk.. It is excepted pretty well where we are, there atr alot of mixed couples here and Bireaical kids.:o

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I am Asian and my man is black.

I'm white and my man is Mexican:D .

I am white and he is mixed (Jamaican and White) :)

Hispanic and my hubby is Black with 2 beautiful girls I wish were darker.When we first hooked up I had never dated a black man wow he put something on me LOL. We would go out in public and get stares but I didn't care and still don't now I see more mix couples and I think it is awesome!!!!!

I'm white and my man is Native.

I am white and my man is black

im indian (india asia) and hes white. i notice it even more when i go to visit him in the boonies in nh... people stare but luckily no one has said anything... yet

Im Latina and my husband is italian/black.....and I love him sooo much!!!

Im mixed (blk, white and everything else) and he is purtreco (howeva u spell that) and white.

I'm white (spanish, portuguese). My guy is mexican. He's also 17 years older than me-I think that trips people out way more than the racial difference.

My fiance is white and I am black. I dont care about the looks, people need to mind their business.

well i am white rican asasin native amercian italian and blk my man is blk as you can tell he is blk like they say darker the berry sweeter the juice. I dotn care I love him he is my king.

I am white and he is black. But I have always dated people, not colors.

I am black my fiance is Italian. I love him to death, He will be released from Willard on Dec. 5th,

I am WHITE. He is BLACK.;) We are proudly loving each other!

I am white and my boyfriend is biracial, we love each other very much, he is in a southeastern Kentucky prison where they are extremely predjuice, but we see each other for who we are not the color of our skin

I'm white (australian) and my man is mexican... race doesnt bother me when I'm with a guy, it's the person inside that counts

I am white and my husband is black. Some of the gaurds dont like that and we know it because they tend to put us right up front in the visiting room and watch us very closly. Not to mention, they always correct everything we do even if we are not doing anything but talking. It's hard sometimes. We manage though.

I'm white and he's black/white/cherokee indian.

i am white and my boyfriend is black its the norm in upstate ny too but i still get the stares from people at the visits. thank god its almost over. is it december 15th yet!!!

Hey I am whit my man is black and I have 3 biracial children, we live in mississippi were its not that much accepted but folks will get use to it.:)

I am White and he is a beautiful half Black and half Samoan!

I am white and my man is black.

i am white and my g/f is black but it dont matter i love her to pieces

I am white and my man is black

I am white and he's black.....but our families love each of the other...My mom loves him and his loves me etc......I dont get to deal with the visititaion part of it....but they