Just finished 22 years in the Feds and State of Colorado feeling homesick at times cuz not much out here makes sense anyone out there that can relate? looking for support groups in the state of Minnesota PO is a stooge no help there never thought id admit it but there are alot of times when Florence looks kind of good

PDS, welcome home, and to PTO!

It is my opinion that you might be able to provide valuable information to our members from your own firsthand experience. We have many members who have been through the system, and are still dealing with its aftereffects.

I see you've found our Fed Forum....might I also suggest Success Stories and Recidivism and Re-entry as well.

22 years is quite the long haul; my guy is in his 8th year of a 15-to-life sentence and I'd love to hear your input on what it's like for our loved ones inside.

Glad you found us, and it's good to meet you ;)

PDS Welcome home!!!! You will find many great people here and good info. and support

Wow, 22 years! Welcome home and welcome to PTO

Welcome home PDS!

And welcome to the PTO Family!

I can relate! I did not do any near 22 years, between being in the military for 20 years and after that prison, I find that I no longer understand the civilian world - there are times when I have not a clue has to how things work anymore.

But I can tell you, it comes slowly, but it comes, if not understanding, then adjustment. Though at times I have thought that it would be just too easy to give up, violate and go back, I won't ever do that!

After being home for over two years now there is just too much to lose, and I won't give it up!

Stay strong, know that we are here for you!

If you ever need to talk just pm me.

Patti

PDS,

Just wanted to say Welcome Home. After 22 years, I am sure there is going to be some adjusting. The world is a fast and changing place. I have trouble some days just trying to figure out where it is going and I have not even been away.

The only advice I can give is for you to stay true to yourself. Should you find a support group, I would be very much interested in hearing about it. I have long felt there is a need for such groups; however, I have not really found where such a thing exists... at least in my part of the world. Wouldn't it be great if you could start something. In the meantime, I am sure you will have a lot to share that will benifit the masses here at PTO. Welcome to the family and once again, Welcome Home.

Keep the Faith.

Michael :thumbsup:

Hi PDS


Welcome to PTO. Here you will find the support that you need. Also please come to the nightly chat and talk to us. You will see the option of the top of the page when you first enter the site. After 6 or 7 in the afternoon there are plenty of people on that can definetely relate.
Please convince yourself that Florence will never be an option again. Although the world may seem uninviting right now you ought to give yourself plenty of chances to adjust. Concentrate on you, not the world. It matters how you are coping and dealing with things not what other people do. I feel your difficulty and distress since I have done time too and know what this is like. I promise you it will be easier as time goes by. Please be patient. Try and occupy yourself with something that is pleasing. Let us know your progress. Peace

What part of Florence? My PAL is in ADX and has been for nearly 10 years. I did nearly 7 years of FED time myself, but most of it was at a Camp.

The best tip I can give is to accept the fact that if you get a job you WILL start at the bottom and with hard work and good luck you'll slowoly move up. Actually, my POs were a great help and provided emotionaly support every step of the way. Of course, I am seriously reformed - I am not going back to prison.

My boyfriend is in Florence FCI. Can you please tell me what he's going through? What goes on? How much does it suck? Are they jerks? I'm glad you're out and I hope he's doing ok because I haven't even talked to him yet.

I dont have an answer for you on Florence. I met a few guys who spent time time there who never said anything one way or the other about it. I think there's a minimum, a medium and a high at Florence, so his experience is probably based on which one he is in. Welcome to PTO.

Welcome Home PDS.....and Welcome to the Family!

We haven't heard from PDS since July. I hope he's doing ok, still free, etc.