Soul SLiver
04-19-2003, 06:35 PM
10 Weeks ago, my ex broke his finger playing basketball...
it STILL has not healed...there's swelling in the lowest knuckle of his left ring finger and it's gone down, but not gone. It WAS the size of about 3 of my fingers put together (I'm a size 5 ring finger) but now it's about 1 1/2. I'm worried because when i asked a doctor friend of mine about it he said there's two reasons why it could still be like that.
1) The finger did not heal properly and the bone did not set. Liquid is settling possibly due to torn tendons.
2) the finger/bone got infected and could cause need for an amputation.
now...that said, I spoke to the visiting LT on my way out who has ALWAYS been helpful beyond words with me. He scolded me for not coming around but when he was done, he told me that the doctor of the prison is a complete ass and would not help me at all, but his secretary would. So I'm supposed to call her.
My ex told me that he has an appointment on the 23rd with the doctor again. The last time he went he was given a splint (for the fourth time) and all that does is cut off circulation in his finger and causing the tip to go numb. He's sick of the splints. He asked what else could be done and they told him "well, we could shackle you, put you in the back of a van and take you to a street hospital and do surgery, but we won't unless it's totally necessary".
Does anyone else see that it IS necessary at this point? Am I the only one who gives a crap about anyone's health anymore?
I just about LOST it when he told me that they won't even give him anything but aspirin to kill the pain (I have only broken a rib, and I can tell you that was the worst pain I have ever felt...but I broke the rib when I had bronchitis...so it hurt worse than it should have coughing all the time). They brush off his requests to see a street doctor every time he asks and they throw this "street hospital" thing at him just to shut him up until the next doctors appt where they give him another splint and tell him to go away.
After talking to the SGT, I thought about this.
What if I get MY doctor to call the prison with me on the line and tell them he wants copies of the x-rays AND copies of all the medical documentation. Would they give that to him? Could he threaten to sue the prison system if the proper medical care wasn't given? Would it make a difference if it was me or a doctor asking these questions?
I just want him (and everyone else in prison) to be given EQUAL medical care.
Here's a scary thought...the prison has 2 (yes two) fully functioning emergency rooms and 2 fully functioning SURGERY rooms, yet they provide NO surgery OR emergency services on the grounds. I asked if this was due to liability. I was told "no, it's just that the doctors here are really just LVN's with Badges".
WHAT!? You have LVN's saying they're doctors? WHAT!?
UGH! I'm mad and I want to do something to change the system.
If any of you can find out WHO the doctors are at your loved ones prisons and find out if they are DOCTORS or LVN's...PLEASE tell me...
I'm very interested about this...it doesn't seem right to have LVN's giving doctors orders. They don't do it on the streets...why should it be different in the prsions?
it STILL has not healed...there's swelling in the lowest knuckle of his left ring finger and it's gone down, but not gone. It WAS the size of about 3 of my fingers put together (I'm a size 5 ring finger) but now it's about 1 1/2. I'm worried because when i asked a doctor friend of mine about it he said there's two reasons why it could still be like that.
1) The finger did not heal properly and the bone did not set. Liquid is settling possibly due to torn tendons.
2) the finger/bone got infected and could cause need for an amputation.
now...that said, I spoke to the visiting LT on my way out who has ALWAYS been helpful beyond words with me. He scolded me for not coming around but when he was done, he told me that the doctor of the prison is a complete ass and would not help me at all, but his secretary would. So I'm supposed to call her.
My ex told me that he has an appointment on the 23rd with the doctor again. The last time he went he was given a splint (for the fourth time) and all that does is cut off circulation in his finger and causing the tip to go numb. He's sick of the splints. He asked what else could be done and they told him "well, we could shackle you, put you in the back of a van and take you to a street hospital and do surgery, but we won't unless it's totally necessary".
Does anyone else see that it IS necessary at this point? Am I the only one who gives a crap about anyone's health anymore?
I just about LOST it when he told me that they won't even give him anything but aspirin to kill the pain (I have only broken a rib, and I can tell you that was the worst pain I have ever felt...but I broke the rib when I had bronchitis...so it hurt worse than it should have coughing all the time). They brush off his requests to see a street doctor every time he asks and they throw this "street hospital" thing at him just to shut him up until the next doctors appt where they give him another splint and tell him to go away.
After talking to the SGT, I thought about this.
What if I get MY doctor to call the prison with me on the line and tell them he wants copies of the x-rays AND copies of all the medical documentation. Would they give that to him? Could he threaten to sue the prison system if the proper medical care wasn't given? Would it make a difference if it was me or a doctor asking these questions?
I just want him (and everyone else in prison) to be given EQUAL medical care.
Here's a scary thought...the prison has 2 (yes two) fully functioning emergency rooms and 2 fully functioning SURGERY rooms, yet they provide NO surgery OR emergency services on the grounds. I asked if this was due to liability. I was told "no, it's just that the doctors here are really just LVN's with Badges".
WHAT!? You have LVN's saying they're doctors? WHAT!?
UGH! I'm mad and I want to do something to change the system.
If any of you can find out WHO the doctors are at your loved ones prisons and find out if they are DOCTORS or LVN's...PLEASE tell me...
I'm very interested about this...it doesn't seem right to have LVN's giving doctors orders. They don't do it on the streets...why should it be different in the prsions?