GENO329T
04-11-2005, 10:10 PM
HI EVERYBODY!!!!!!! FIRST OF ALL I ALWAYS ADDRESS MY MAN AS MY HUSBAND.WE ARE NOT OFFICIALLY MARRIED YET BUT THE CHAPLAIN SPOKE WITH US ON OUR LAST VISIT AND SAID WE ARE THE NEXT COUPLE.HE SAID HE WILL BE SENDING ME MY PAPER WORK TO FILL OUT THE END OF THIS MONTH AND THEN IT WILL BE ON AND POPPIN'.I CANT WAIT. QUESTION IS :confused: WHEN WE GET MARRIED I WANT TO KNOW FROM YOU LADIES OR GENTLEMEN IF YOU ARE ALLOWED TO HAVE ANY TIME ALONE, B/C IF SO WE GONNA GET DOWN...:D ALL I NEED IS 2 MINUTES WITH MY BABY, LOL..... BUT THE CHAPLAIN TOLD ME WE WOULD HAVE A 1 HOUR LIMIT..THAT IS FOR THE CEREMONY AND TAKING PICTURES...I WONDER IF WE ARE DONE WITH ALL OF THAT IN SAY 45MINUTES, DO WE GET ANY TIME ALONE???OR WILL IT BE SUPERVISED THE WHOLE TIME..I KNOW YOU PROBABLY THINK DOES THIS WHITE CHICK GOT IT ALL UPSTAIRS. LOL...BUT YOU COULD JUST LOOK AT IT LIKE I DO..WISHFUL THINKING, HUH???I HOPE MAYBE SOMEONE HERE HAS EXPERIENCED THIS BEFORE..MY NIECE POSTED SOMETHING LIKE THIS IN THE PRISON WEDDINGS FORUM AND SHE DIDNT GET ANY CERTAIN ANSWERS SO IM JUST POSTING IT HERE IN HOPES MAYBE SOME OF YOU GUYS KNOW..THANKS FOR READING,,ANY INFO IS APPRECIATED...GOD I LOVE MY GREEN EYED ANGEL..(((SIGH))) HE IS THE BEST...
HOPE EVERYONE HAD A GREAT DAY,
LOVING GENO FOR LIFE,
nightbird
04-11-2005, 10:13 PM
In Florida we just get an hour visit after the ceremony and no time alone, not sure about Alabama.
I'm not sure about the "alone" time...but, I doubt very seriously the "great" state of Alabama would let that happen...considering Alabama doesn't have conjugal visits or anything of that nature. :( But, a little wishful thinking never hurt anybody...right?
I'm gonna move this over to the Alabama forum so it may get more input on a "state" level.
Selena
If the state doesnt have conjugal visits then you wont get that kind of alone time.
GENO329T
04-12-2005, 12:05 AM
Ok, Conjigal Visit Are Not The Same As Contact Visits Right???? Because We Get Contact Visits.but If Its Not The Same Then What Is Conjical *(spellcheck Please:) ) Visits.. Im Clueless..thanks
No...a contact visit is what we get now (holding hands, hugging, kissing, etc..) but, a conjugal visit is actually "sexual" (sometimes referred to as a "family visit" or a "trailer" visit)..so, these are 2 different things. Don't get me wrong...it would be great if we were allowed conjugals...but, sadly..that isn't the case.
Contact just means its not behind glass. So to answer your questions they are two differant things.
E1950
04-12-2005, 04:47 AM
congratulation's on your upcoming marriage. unfortunatly you won't have any alone time. we were married ar St. clair in 1995. we were married on the visiting yard with only the chaplain present (no C/O's) but he never left us alone even for a second and there are camera's in the visiting room.
alabama DOC doesn't like happy people so they don't allow "family visit's". contact visit's just means you don't visit behind glass, conjugal visit's are not allowed anywhere in alabama.
sue