Hi all just want to vent i just got off the phone with my man and we were talkin about his parole next year (hopefully he will get it) and i was askin him if she was a nice person his parole officer and has he talked to her about meeting my daughter for the first time he said that she has not been the nicest she told him that he was minipulating my daughter b coz she had nice things to say about him like she loves him and she said that what he did along time ago was bad but he is a kind person now my daughter is only 5 and she nows what he did i explained it to her she nows what it means but for my little girl to say she loves someone that she met for the first time (but talked on the phone) is really shocking to me bcoz my ex she never liked and her father hasn't been the best she doesnt say she loves him thats why its a shock to me i belive children can see the goodness and the bad in people thats y she never liked my ex even i didnt see it in my ex but she told me he was a bad man for me when she first met him and she was right he was a big drunk who yelled at me and all that stuff anyways it made me mad wut this parole officer said she has never met my daughter and if anything my daughter is the one who minipulates people LOL and of other things she said that i must be @!$^# crasy to want to be with this man wut kind of person is that is there a way that he can be reasinged a new parole officer one that wont b a judgemantle person well that you for lettin me vent i feel better now.

He probably can be reassigned and I think he has to write a letter requesting that and give good reason. Perhaps if you were to write a letter saying briefly how you feel about her judging your daughter, etc and he can include that with his request. So its worth a try. You might also want to send a copy of that letter to a superiour of the P.O.ers and state that a copy was sent with the letter your loved ones sends. Good luck.

He can request to be reassigned . WitchNblue gave u all the right advice! It is worth a try!! Good Luck!!