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GENO329T 04-02-2005, 11:15 PM :rolleyes: MY HUSBAND CALLED ME TODAY (THIS MORNING).HE HAS HAD THE FLU AND SO HAS ALOT OF THE OTHER GUYS ON HIS TIER.HE PUT IN FOR SICK CALL 5 DAYS AGO. AS SOON AS HE PUT IN FOR SICK CALL THEY LOCKED THE PRISON DOWN FOR A SHAKEDOWN B/C SOMEONE GOT BUSTED WITH ILLEGAL SUBSTANCES.SO HE DIDNT GET CALLED FOR SICK CALL TIL LAST NIGHT.HE REFUSED TO GO B/C HE IS GETTING BETTER AND HE SAID THERE WAS NO SINCE IN PAYING TO SEE THE DOC NO MATTER HOW SMALL OF AMOUNT IT IS-B/C HE HAS GOTTEN OVER THE HARDEST PART AND IS DOING BETTER NOW.HE SAID THEY TOLD HIM THEY WERE GOING TO PUT HIM IN THE HOLE FOR 45 DAYS B/C OF REFUSING TO SEE THE DOC AFTER HE HAD SIGNED UP FOR SICK CALL.DOES THIS MAKE SINCE?????? WOULDNT THEY HAVE PUT HIM IN THE HOLE RIGHT AWAY INSTEAD OF WAITING A COUPLE OF DAYS.HE HAS BEEN IN HOLMAN CF SINCE 1994 AND SURELY HE WOULDNT DO ANYTHING TO HAVE TO GO TO THE HOLE.HE HAS NEVER BEEN IN ANY TROUBLE SINCE THE DAY HE GOT THERE. DOES THIS SOUND RIGHT?DOES ANYONE KNOW IF THEY HAVE THE RIGHT TO DO THAT JUST B/C YOUVE GOTTEN BETTER AND DONT WANT TO GO.I'M CONFUSED.WHAT ARE THE CIRCUMSTANCES IF HE GETS PUT IN THE HOLE?? IS THAT ANY DIFFERENT FROM BEING IN YOUR CELL 23 HOURS OUT OF A DAY?HE WAS SUPPOSE TO CALL ME RIGHT BACK AND HE DIDNT .HERE IT IS 12OO AM AND I DIDNT HEAR FROM HIM ANYMORE.I DONT KNOW IF THEY CAME AND GOT HIM.I CALLED THE PHONE COMPANY TO SEE IF THERE WAS A BLOCK ON THE PHONE BY CHANCE AND THEY SAID NO THE LINE IS CLEAR.I HOPE SOMEONE MIGHT SHED SOME LIGHT ON THIS SUBJECT. THANX.BY THE WAY THIS FACILITY IS IN ALABAMA. THANKS FOR YOUR TIME.... LOVIN' GENO FOR LIFE, REGINA ;)
Regina
Im so sorry, that seems strange. I dont understand how they can put him in the hole for feeling better, since they left him five days to begin with. I think while they are in the hole, they have restricted privelidges, like recreation etc. I am not so sure about Holman, I hope someone can come along and tell you more. I really hope that you hear from him again soon. (((((hugs))))) Please let us know how it all goes.
CRAZY4ALBERT 04-03-2005, 12:54 AM Sorry To Hear That, But Nothing Ever Makes Sense With These People. I'm Glad To Hear That Your Man Is Feeling Better, However, Sorry To Hear That He Had To Go To The Hole Because Of It.
GENO329T 04-03-2005, 04:37 PM Thank You Kyla And Monica You Are All So Very Sweet. Well Today As Of 5 Pm I Still Have Not Heard From Him Which Is Not A Good Sign. Im Just Trying To Stay Positive And Hope He Did Not Go To The Hole B/c It Wasnt Official That He Was Going He Just Told Me One Of The Guards Had Told Him Its A Possibility.god I Hope Not. Those People Have No Heart What So Ever.but I Am Thankful For The Few Guards There That Are Nice To Him And I.when I Go For A Visit They Always Kid Around With Us And Conversate With Us.they Always Come To The Gate And Get Me And Ask How My Trip Was, Or They Will Say "we Should Have Known You Were Coming The Way Clemons Was Up There Pacing His Cell"(smile)but Alot Of The Other Guards There Just Look At Us Crazy.i Dont Know Why, Unless They Are Just Mad That They Cant Find That Kind Of Love Out In The Free World.but Anyways, Im Just Praying To God That He Is Ok And There Is Some Reasonable Excuse For Why I Havent Heard From Him .but I Hope Someone That Knows About This Type Of Situation Will Write Back And Let Me Know If He Is In The Hole Can We Still Have A Visit? Im Sure We Cant , And Can We Talk On The Phone The Whole 45 Days??can He Get My Mail That I Send Him?can He Write Me?i Mean I Dont See That Much Of A Difference In Being On Death Row And Being In The Hole You Know//thanks For Everybodys Warm Thoughts.your All So Special..please Continue To Pray For Us..prayer Changes Things.... Lovin' Geno For Life, Regina
Mrs. Vins 04-03-2005, 04:50 PM I have heard of inmates being penalized for not taking sick call when they finally get called. It doesn't sound like it's right in his situation because they waited so long to get him in the first place but I know they penalize folks so they don't abuse the "privilege" of receiving third world medical care, no seriously, they don't want people using that as an excuse to not go to work and then not go to sick call so they end up laying around doing nothing. At least that's how it is where Vin is. They are not allowed to do "nothing" or lay around in bed once they're awake for count.
Regina
Can you call the prison and try and find out. Perhaps ask to speak to a chaplain to check on him. Sometimes the warden will answer you (not normally, sometimes). Or perhaps you can call, and say, I am organising a visit, and checking on his status, if his still allowed to have visits, and see if they can tell you his classification. This must be an awful worry for you, Im so sorry you are going through this (((hugs)))
GENO329T 04-03-2005, 06:53 PM Kyla That Is A Great Idea.i Dont Know Why I Didnt Think Of It But Thank God For You Thinking Of It.i Appreciate Everyone That Takes The Time To Write.im Sending Trillions Of Hugs Back To You Girl.well I Just Got Finished Writing Him A Letter Telling Him How Worried I Was But Trying Not To Sound Depressing B/c He Doesnt Like To Hear Me Like That So It Was More Of A Letter Of Concern About What Is Going On.and To Vinsgirl Thank You For That Information Glad To Know This Wasnt Some Bogus Story He Was Getting.i Just Dont Understand These Facilities And Their Rules. But Whoever Will?????// I Always Get A Call From Him Every Morning About 8:15 If That Call Doesnt Come Thru In The Morning I Will Know Something Is Definatley Wrong.im Just Gonna Sit With My Fingers Crossed For Now.my Kids Are Also Worried And It Doesnt Help When They Are Asking How Come Geno Hasnt Called Us Today.he Always Keeps One Call A Day Just For Them.and Then He Calls Back And Talks To Me.he Gets A Letter From Each One Of Them Everyday Of The Week That He Can Get Mail.they Are Very Dedicated To Communication With Him And They Are Only 11, 9, And 7.well Girls Thanks For Getting Back To Me.i Appreciate It So Much.and Open To Any Other Suggestions Or Answers Anyone Has....thanx Again
Lovin' Geno For Life, Regina
HuGzz 'N StUff 04-03-2005, 08:15 PM I'm with Kyla, call the prison and be sweet as pie! I know that in Ohio if you are in the hole on DR, you can have a 1 hour visit on tuesdays. Also, does he have a case worker? My husbands case worker is pretty easy to get along with. Remember, the phones there might be down also. I know that if the guys here are taking a med and refuse it, then they can't have it again, and they have to wait 90 days to see the DR for the same ailment. I know all about that feeling of not getting that call. It's awful! Hang in there! Keep calling until you get an answer from someone!
Tracy
1630nikki 04-03-2005, 08:42 PM I feel you should call the prison as well. I know the prison system is diffrent in each state however by no means is this a right to put someone in the hole. I feel when you call you need to speak with a captain, someone with authority. Explain to them the matter and request some thing to be done........Continue to call, obviously you don't want to cause problems for him, but let them know there is someone on the outside keeping tabs..
Good Luck and I will keep you both in my prayers
GENO329T 04-03-2005, 09:06 PM Thanks Tracy And 1630nikki For Your Informatoin ...i Can Tell You One Thing You Guys Have Helped Me Out Tremendously Just By Letting Me Know That It May Not Be As Bad As It Seems.thanks For All The Advice And As I Said Earlier If That 8 Am Call Doesnt Come In Tomorrow Morning I Will Definately Be On The Phone With The Prison ..b/c Know There Is A Possibility That Something Could Be Wrong With The Phones But Some Of Those Guards Are Really Close To Him And I Think If They Had Put Him In The Hole He Would Have Got One Of Them To Call And Tell Me.but Then Again Maybe Not B/c He Doesnt Want Anyone Talking To Me No Matter What And He Keeps Addresses And Telephone Numbers Top Secret Dont Ask Me Why He Is Just Like That ..thank You All Sooo Much I Work Day Shift So When I Get Home If He Hasnt Called You Guys Will Be The First To Know.. Thanks Sooooooooooo Much...
Lovin'geno For Life, Regina
haswtch 04-03-2005, 09:27 PM hoping itall works out OK! they are sooo goofy
Damaris 04-04-2005, 05:33 AM Hey Regina you know who this is. Everyone was sick on that tier, I confirmed it with Wendell's mom. I haven't heard from my man in two weeks.....But I know it is because he has the flu really bad. Call me later, adios
Dixee 04-04-2005, 07:36 AM Regina...
I hope that you find out something soon. I know the waiting..and not knowing is hard enough. The way things are handled in prison is crazy..our so called system at work...what a joke!
I'm glad your hubby is feeling better...hate to think he may be penalized for getting well. geeesh...thats ridiculous.
Hang in there!
GENO329T 04-04-2005, 11:07 PM It's 11:53pm Monday Night And Guess What???????i Just Got Off The Phone With My Honey From 4 Calls....yeah !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He Said The Phone Said That He Had Exceeded His Call Limit For The Week After One Call.he Said They Just Put New Phones In On His Tier And They Were Not Working Properly..when I Told Him How Upset I Was Thinking They Had Already Came And Got Him To Put Him In The Hole He Said "awww Baby You Know I Would Have Got Someone To Call And Let You Know" .. He Said That It Is Still A Possibility That He Might Have To Go Because They Have Not Finished The Paperwork... He Said You Know How Slow They Are With Paper Work Here.but He Also Said That The Nurse Told Him That She Is Not Filling The Paper Work Out Because She Feels It Wasnt Handled Properly Either.she Said She Will Leave That Paper Work Up To The Warden And The Doctor. So I've Got My Fingers Crossed In Hopes That Everyone Forgets About This And Just Lets It Go.he Said He Made Sure That He Let Them Know He Was Gonna Call His Lawyers And Tell Them How Shadey These People Were About Getting The Proper Medical Attention That He Is Entitled To.so Maybe That Will Make Them Drop The Whole Thing.lets Hope..well God Is Good Because I Thought I Wouldnt Get To Talk To Him Today B/c If He Is Gonna Call He Always Calls By 8:30 Am. Even Though Im Not Home At That Time He Knows I Call Home And Check My Messages To See If I Hear The Recording From The Prison. I Did That Today. No Recording. Then I Came Home And Picked My Kids Up And We Went Out For A Family Night Out.the Kids Had A Good Time And It Helped Me To Stop Thinking About The Fact ..then I Got Home And Was On The Phone With My Homegirl And The Phone Beeped I Looked At The Caller Id It Said "atmore Alabama" I Screamed With Excitement In Hopes For Good News On The Other End...sure Enough My Baby Said The Phone Had Just Went Thru For The First Time Since Saturday ....thank You Jesus Is All I Can Say.. And Thanks To You All Who Helped Me Thru This .i Was So Depressed.im Going To See Him Friday From 7:30 To 1:30 Pm. I Will Be Sure To Let You Guys Know How The Visit Was...they Are Always Great But Never Last Long Enough And Every Since Time Went Up An Hour The Day Has Really Been Flying By. I Hope It Slows Down By Then ...thanks Again , Whew! That Was A Scare ...til Tomorrow,
Lovin" Geno For Life, Regina
Regina
That is great news, I am so glad that you got your call, to put your mind at ease. Everything crossed that they wont write him up.
hvymetalcowboy 01-13-2006, 10:42 AM Sorry to hear your man is having to go through all of this,you as well.The admin. usually does what they want.Most of it doesn,t make sence to people out here.It,s a differant world with differant rules.The hole was pretty bad when I did time.It was ment to break you down and kill your spirit.ven worse,they used to force meds like thorazine on inmates in the hole to further break them down.These days I hear the hole is mostly just 24 hour lock down and not much else.I hear they feed you regular food in the hole now instead of frozen vegies.I also hear that you can have cloths on while in the hol and that there is lights in the cell.At any rate,I,m sorry to hear about this.I spent alot of time in the hole and it was pretty bad.I,ll pray for him and you as well.
imani4ever 01-13-2006, 11:20 AM @Regina, I am really sorry to hear what you and geno are going thru, I am glad to hear that he's recovered from his flu:) . I will remember to uplift him in prayer for a fair decision from the powers that be. Keep on keeping on and God bless you, take care.....remember God is in control:D
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