I got a letter yesterday saying a whole lot of things. He thinks that i was staring at somebody on a visit he said some hurtful things. But he's going out of his mind i wasn'tlooking at anybody.He's been in solitary for almost 2 years so i think it's getting to him. What I want with another inmate? So whateva he wrote e another letter saying sorry for calling me out my name ( the worst he called me was a sneaky broad) but anyways he said it was over. I think it's mostly over the stress that he knows I see over poeple. The agreement was do me until 06'. I wrote him saying it's not over, we choose eachother so one person can't end it. I love him too much to lose him this way. He has the nerve to say we can still be friends. We had plans of having a baby, he was supposed to get paroled to my house. What is a girl todo. The prison is type far (five hous on a bus) but I dont want to go see him and he deny my visit.
What is a girl to do

I'll keep ya'll up to date on this

I am sorry he is doing this. You are right. They go a little crazy in solitary. Just dont let it become a habit.

Sounds like the solitary is getting to him. Keep writing letters and trying to talk to him. I hope it all works out for you...keep us updated.

I'm sorry to hear this :( They do go a little nuts sometimes in solitary.I hope everything works out for you,please keep us posted

Tell him (if you want to, anyway): Okay, for now, we're just friends. (Not like things go much past that at a visit anyway) and keep bein there for him if you want to. Don't take it personally.

I got a letter yesterday saying a whole lot of things. He thinks that i was staring at somebody on a visit he said some hurtful things. But he's going out of his mind i wasn'tlooking at anybody.He's been in solitary for almost 2 years so i think it's getting to him. What I want with another inmate? So whateva he wrote e another letter saying sorry for calling me out my name ( the worst he called me was a sneaky broad) but anyways he said it was over. I think it's mostly over the stress that he knows I see over poeple. The agreement was do me until 06'. I wrote him saying it's not over, we choose eachother so one person can't end it. I love him too much to lose him this way. He has the nerve to say we can still be friends. We had plans of having a baby, he was supposed to get paroled to my house. What is a girl todo. The prison is type far (five hous on a bus) but I dont want to go see him and he deny my visit.
What is a girl to do

I'll keep ya'll up to date on thisnever tolerate that sh if you go looking for after he said it was over he will have the upper hand and probably keep you on the side to finance his needs when he gets out, remind him that he was suppose to be paroled to your house when you talk to him ON THE PHONE do not go way out and go threw that jail hell when oyu don,t know what to expect, then drive back home with egg on your face for 5 hours love yourself first, and then make him fall in love with you, tell him yeah we can be friends i agree with you then watch his face his feeling will be written all over it, just my opinion. good luck:thumbsup:

I do agree that solitary confinement can get to people, that is very common. Just keep going on strong and you can continue donw the road. You have to make the best decision for yourself :)

HUGS

Mel

So now I got another letter. He's much calmer, he still on this friend thing. So i done wrote my " i love you why would you do this letter" but now even though its difficult for me, I'm going to play 'freind" role. I kust told him to stop saying he loves me, those words torture me every time I read them. I know he loves me, but if this is what he wants let it be . If it is love he'll be back.

So what ya'll think?
Thanx for the advice!!!!!!!!

So JAson wrote me another letter, he says he apoligizes( but he still says I was looking at someone) He loves me and wants me to come visit him a.s.a.p. , but he didn't say we was together again.
I hope he got his mind right when i get there. thanx for listening

glad he is coming to his senses :)

Keep us posted,I am wishing you all the best