Hello ladies!

I just was curious to how long has it been since the break-up?

For me, it has been about 15 days. I know that number is rather small but it is huge for me. Josh and I have broken up in the past and got back together in a matter of a few days. Me going 15 days is amazing, and I am so proud of it!

It has been 9 days since I sent the dreaded letter letting him know my feelings and decisions on our so called relationship. I am not even sure if he has received the letter because the mail was so bad.

I do not care though because I feel GREAT about this and I want each and everyone of you girls to know that you are special, at least to me :D

HUGS

Mel

Mel,

We seem to have a lot in common. :) I left my Josh about 11 days ago and actually just mailed out the break up letter today. It is officially over, I can finally get the closure that I need and move on.....

We broke up February 26th... so its been 1 month and 2 days officially. :| Still hard for me, i moved out last weekend into my place (hes salty knowing that I LEFT HIM) but good riddence, its what i needed to help me refocus and move on. I still am getting upset about when i know he goes to work, and what hes doing on his off time, etc... right now my hang up is the possibility of him hooking up with other females... i dont know how to deal with that, it makes me sick to think about it... HELP!!!

Well, I can't even say when the exact date was.. He started hooking up with another girl (his current girlfriend who is pregnant with his baby) at the beginning of August, but we still saw each other some,we talked on the phone every night and even hung out some. Our relationship by that point was over but we both still hung onto each other, hard to explain how it really was. He would say he loved me but was so messed up that he couldn't be in my life, I would still tell him I loved him.. It was really confusing! In September he came to my house drunk off his butt and I was so needy that I let him stay there with me..I couldn't stand it, I missed him so much that I just wanted to have one more night with him. We talked about getting back together, he said he would stay clean, he would leave her, he loved me, couldn't believe he left me for her, on and on and on... So we woke up the next morning and I felt so happy, thought that everything was going to be ok.. well.. I dropped him off on my way to work and he called me later that day. I was going to pick him up and he told me that he was just drunk and didn't mean what he said.. although he said he did still love me, he wasn't leaving her, he was not going to stop getting high, etc... So I would say officially that is when our relationship ended, as we never were "together" again after that.

january 25th is when all of this went down and it still hurts

mine was either end of July or begining of August. I am glad we now have this fourm for all the ones just going through this. I wish all of you the best and keep your heads high things do get better.

5 weeks tomorrow :(

I Also Have To Say It Is Hard To Pin Down The Date Because As Most Of You Have Read All Of My Posts ( I Hope) Lol It Was Going Down Hill At A Fast Rate... The Final Letter Telling Me To Move On Was Dated March 11, 2005... And I'm Still Totally Messed Up Over It And I Just Got Home Fromthe Office And Went To The Mailbox As Always And There Isnt Any Letter There And It's Kicking My Butt!! He Has Sent 3 More Since That Awful " Move On" Letter And I Just Knew He Would Have Sent Our Son Something For Easter ( Better Late Then Not At All) But Nope.. Nothing!! So It's Another Evening Of Trying To Get Through The Night And Get Some Sleep And Not Just Obsess Over It All Night And Cry.. Cali Sunshine, Said It All.. There Are So Many Questions That You Want Answered And You Dont Ever Get Those..
:(

I left Louis for 6 weeks after Thanksgiving and then I thought that I really wanted to be with him so I went back for A little bit but it was not there anymore. I would say that I left him back in Nov. I feel so much better about myself and I'm not just sitting around waiting for nothing!!! Ladies there are so many men out here that would love to be with any of us!!!

Oh goodness, Its been awhile. I've been with my honey for a year now, so it had to be about 15 months ago.

It gets better, and easier in time. I promise :)

Heather

march 23 was when i talked to him and told him but march 21 was the nite she brought letters to hospital and that is when i knew it was over...so all still new and the wound has not had time to heal....hope it gets betters