hi u guys whats going on? well im sure many of u know my story..just like most of the ladies i stood by my mans side and he got home and things were not as we planned..i didnt think it would ever ever get as bad as it did..so it has been over..

i cried..i tried..i even got sick of myself for being a fool and tryin to make something work that he obviously didnt want..yet it still hurts

so recently we started talking again..and let me tell u ladies things are actually *ok* no we are not together..but we for once get along

so this brings me to my conclusion..when i look back at it i had so many expectations..i had a fairy tale in my head..and when things didnt go as planned if i showed it or not to him..inside of my head i was going crazy..getting upset etc..and that *changed* me..i became attached..like my life was his..and i look back at it and dont blame him for wanting out

but now when there are no expectations..friendship..we actually get along..theres no pressure..we just kind of "go with the flow"..its actually kind of nice..im not sure what the future holds..but deep inside me i know he is not right for me..i dont trust him one bit..

so for all u ladies going through the lonely nights thinking it wont get better...*do u*..belive me i still cry..still think "what if"..but if a man says u like he does he would not put u through wut some of them put us..it is hard..sometimes i dont know how i deal..i have everything going for me..im living my dream just without my prince charming..

keep ur head up..and focus on u..remeber one thing "never make someone ur priority when u are only an option to them"..

so yes im stuck in the middle..we are friends..yet i still love him..but deep down i know if they loved us like they said they did they would of never let us go through an ounce of pain..

things only get worse before they get better =) much love...

Hi schnuckums... I have followed your story all along here and it's good to hear you are doing okay. You are SO right about making never making someone a priority when you are only their option... I hope you keep getting better and better (((hugs))), Q

Thanks Schnukums for your post

I wish you all the best HUGS

Thank you for this amazing post. It is nice to hear, as I am sure many would agree with me, that it does get better in most cases. I only wish you happiness in all your life decisions to come :D

HUGS

Mel

I"m happy for you that things are getting better and if the two of you can be just friends than that is great. Please keep us updated on how you are doing cause we do need to hear that it does get better!!!

hi u guys whats going on? well im sure many of u know my story..just like most of the ladies i stood by my mans side and he got home and things were not as we planned..i didnt think it would ever ever get as bad as it did..so it has been over..

i cried..i tried..i even got sick of myself for being a fool and tryin to make something work that he obviously didnt want..yet it still hurts

so recently we started talking again..and let me tell u ladies things are actually *ok* no we are not together..but we for once get along

so this brings me to my conclusion..when i look back at it i had so many expectations..i had a fairy tale in my head..and when things didnt go as planned if i showed it or not to him..inside of my head i was going crazy..getting upset etc..and that *changed* me..i became attached..like my life was his..and i look back at it and dont blame him for wanting out

but now when there are no expectations..friendship..we actually get along..theres no pressure..we just kind of "go with the flow"..its actually kind of nice..im not sure what the future holds..but deep inside me i know he is not right for me..i dont trust him one bit..

so for all u ladies going through the lonely nights thinking it wont get better...*do u*..belive me i still cry..still think "what if"..but if a man says u like he does he would not put u through wut some of them put us..it is hard..sometimes i dont know how i deal..i have everything going for me..im living my dream just without my prince charming..

keep ur head up..and focus on u..remeber one thing "never make someone ur priority when u are only an option to them"..

so yes im stuck in the middle..we are friends..yet i still love him..but deep down i know if they loved us like they said they did they would of never let us go through an ounce of pain..

things only get worse before they get better =) much love...

That's so good that you could recognize your mistakes, own up to them and learn from them as well. I'm proud of you. Your story will give other girls very good advice. I agree with you in all that you say because it's true. You have to always remember to put yourself £1, not them. It can be easy to lose ourselves in a relationship when er get involved and hard to see that sometimes. Thank you for sharing and good luck to you and whatever the future may hold for you and this man.
Wishing you the best, Sheila
;) :)

thanks....i needed that reminder this mornin that things will get better.....good luck to u...i think knowing where u went wrong is a big step in the right direction.

Good for you :) Glad to see someone turn themselves around and mve toward a more positive direction :)

Stacy