View Full Version : He's still around....


lunachild
03-20-2005, 06:32 PM
I just heard today that he is still around here somewhere. He has been seen several times in a small diner about 1/2 mile up the road. The one waitress knows my boys and recognized him. He was with a really tall woman with black curly hair. And could barely stand.

I had to get out of here. I thought I was suffocating. I was hoping he was gone somewhere. I was so upset, thinking he is living with this other girl, right under my nose. (I live in a VERY small town, I grew up with all these people, and anything within 10 miles is right under your nose). I am just so hurting right now. I left to go to a friends house and by the time I got there I was crying so hard I turned around and went to Jason's moms'. She heard my truck pull up and came out with the phone in her hand and said she was just going to call me. I talked to her for 2 hours.

She said he is getting sloppy. She said he must be into it deep. And she said no one is helping him anymore. He's a hot commodity and no one wants the trouble. He is probably already looking for the next one to move on to. Women are his forte. I am the only one that wouldn't follow him around like a puppy. She said to not worry, he won't come here. She said he knows your calling his PO and he won't come around you. He knows you gave everything away and burned the rest, he won't be back. She can tell me every move he is going to make and every word he is going to say. She always makes me feel better and good about myself.

She said it is him and not you. He is the heroin addict living with a s**t, and your a good person who did everything out of the kindness of your heart. Don't worry about it. God sees what is right. And who gives a s**t what other people think? You live way out by yourself and don't even have to deal with these people. The ones who matter know the truth. Just move on with your life and slowly it will all go away.

I went to my friends house and he said, "F**K him, you didn't need that a**hole!"

I know he is gone, and I can accept that and I have, I have learned a lesson in heroin addiction: I love him and I know I always will but I can't fight this: I have even accepted the fact that he might die: but the hurt I still have to deal with.

This whole thing has taught me how much I can love, how much strength I really have, that the beauty on the inside is worth more than the outside, that I am a woman who can take care of herself and isn't going to put up with anymore men treating her like s**t. My future is looking amazing and I know God is taking care of us. He has given me some wonderful gifts of friends known and unknown that have kept me on the right path(Maybe he just got tired of my wandering around all over without a clue;).

I really think I am going to make it through this. I love you guys :D

1dayatatime
03-20-2005, 06:44 PM
Luna,
What a post!! YOU are gonna make it! Thru all of this is sounds like you have met a wonderful friend-Jasons mom.

We love you too!!!
ONE

Sadie80
03-20-2005, 07:07 PM
It sounds to me that you have gathered power and strength from this situation. It is very sad when people don't even realize all they lose when they become addicted to drugs. I have been in a relationship with a herion addict before and have been hurt, but in the end I survived. I wish you all the best Luna. You deserve to be happy after all you have been through.

jeffsprincess
03-20-2005, 07:13 PM
Luna- I am so proud of you girl!!!!!! You are such an incredibly strong woman! Can you give a princess some of that strength???

This is wonderful news! I am so happy that you are doing well and you pulled though this with such class and grace! You are an amazing woman and your boys are very lucky to have you as their mother!

Please continue to keep us updated!

California Sunshine
03-20-2005, 09:25 PM
Luna you know I can relate to so much of what you said...drugs,other women etc.
I know it is hard to know he is still around esp in a small town like yours.

I think you will make it,you can do it! Saying you think you can is a huge step in the right direction!!

Love you bunches......BIG BIG HUGS

jessesgirl4ever
03-20-2005, 09:32 PM
Luna,
High five to you , girl!! What an awsome girl with AMAZING strength you have!! You go , girl!! Keep it up!! <<HUGS>>

j2sq
03-20-2005, 09:55 PM
I, for sure, know that you will make it through. I have always had that faith in you. I know you can make it in ANY situation. GOOD LUCK sweetie! (((HUGS)))

RAINA
03-21-2005, 01:27 AM
awww, sweetie. I am so damn proud of you for taking caring of yourself. So glad you reached out for help from his mom, too. You are awesome, girl. Keep loving YOURSELF and everything else will fall into place with time.
{{{{{hugs}}}}}
Raina

babygirl350
03-21-2005, 02:52 AM
We have got your back. You are going to make it girl. Keep on keeping on being strong. You can and are doing this. Great going, keep up the good work.

swtmel
03-22-2005, 07:55 AM
Luna I am very proud of you! I am so glad that you realize you are worth so much more than that :)

I wish you continued strength through this endeavor and I hope that just maybe he will see how much he is missing without you in his life.

I am always around here if you ever need someone to talk to, please do not hesitate to send me a PM :D

Mel

AEMS
03-22-2005, 08:52 AM
Hang in there sweetie! You are doing great and being very strong....you will get through this...hugs and positive thoughts coming your way!!!

StacysWar030
03-22-2005, 05:00 PM
I know he is gone, and I can accept that and I have, I have learned a lesson in heroin addiction: I love him and I know I always will but I can't fight this: I have even accepted the fact that he might die: but the hurt I still have to deal with.

I've said this many times. I can compete against ANY woman. But I will never win with addiction. Not until HE decides to help himself. I KNOW how tough this is Luna, and trust me YOU will PREVAIL! You keep strong for you. You heal for YOU and those beautiful babies.

That's right, you will WIN! Maybe not him, but you will win YOU! :)

Stacy