i think he's lying about stying out of trouble:mad: i went to see him on sat, but b4 that i havent been up there since early dec. he says the feds came to see him to investigate.. investigate what?he says it alwayz been like that , n it wasnt for anythinig new?? yeah right... n now his family is tellin me that they spoke to his mom n that she said he was in the hole. im wondering why i didnt kno anything about that. n i am going to ask him. i think he doesnt want me to worry or whateva. i kne something was wrong. since i kno he has problems with some of the inmates... gang related. what am i suppose to feel like. n is it right to be mad at him for keepin it from me? what would u ladies suggest i say to him to let him kno he has my support , trust all that. but i dont like him gettn in trouble makin it harder for him to get out on his relese date. he doesnt have much more time maybe 12-13 months 2 go..

thanks n love:)

I suggest that you remind him that you are there for him, to support him. Explain how you are feeling about him getting into trouble and all that. Yes, it can be hard for him, but it isnt impossible for his to stay out of trouble.

I know exactly how you feel
my man has been in the hole for 15 days now and has 15 to go. No phonecalls or letters either. I told him how I felt about him getting in trouble but hes convinced it doesnt matter when release comes up. He needs to wake up, I hope he honestly doesnt believe that,

2nice is right, be there for him and that's about all it seems you can do. He probably just wants to keep you from worrying or knowing too much.

Give him positive support and remind him that they know he is getting out soon so they are gunning for him to stay. Misery loves company. He could also catch a street charge in prison and get MORE YEARS. So he has to do the things needed to keep out of trouble so he can come home. Give him love. A man is gonna be a man, but give him something to seriously think about. Peace

yeah... my guy who's in prison and sentenced to 12 years has told me that everything has gone well so far (he's been in for 6 yrs.) he also told me that he would be up for parole in may. yet today when i called to check up on his case i was told that he is "no longer eligible for parole because of his disciplinary status". also they said that there is no longer a release date listed for him. i'm not really sure what's going on and i haven't received a letter from him in a few weeks. he's in preston smith in lamesa texas. if anyone has heard anything about any lockdowns or riots please let me know. anyway, i'm sure there's alot of shame attatched when our loved ones screw up and it must be almost impossible to be able to bring themselves to tell someone who's been waiting patiently for them to get out that they screwed up and have to do more time or that they got their parole eligibility revoked. it's probably pretty embarassing. so i just wrote him a letter telling him that he needs to be honest with me for us to be able to get through this together and that nothing he tells me will make me love him any less but that he has to remember that i'm out here too and that the more he plays along with the system the sooner he'll be home.