What Would You Do If Your Ex Husband Was Still Harasesing You , The Cops No Help There All On His Side . He Is A Dangerous Man ,wants Me Dead. I Know To Much. When No One Can Help Where Do You Turn

Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233. NOW!

Peace...I'd pack my bags and vacate the premises. Had a sistah-friend who made a move like this before...in my youthfulness and "badness" I thought she'd punked out. Took me years and work experience to figure out that she did what she had to do as her circumstances warranted this. Call the hotline for information and support and if needed....just move. Keep us posted. Blessings....

I Have Moved And Even Changed My Name But He Finds Me I Moved 2 States Away And He Always Finds Me , I Think He Is Crazy . I Have Talked To Every One I Can I'm Tired Of Running .

Get a restraining order, get a tape on your phone, get anything you need to to catch him violating the order, and get his a** back in jail. Then get a panic button, program 911 into your phone, carry pepper spray (you can buy it online or at a cop uniform supply shop). Then try to figure out how he's finding you - change those things - whether it's a family member, or forwarding of mail, whatever. Then start taking self-defense training. Good luck!!

I'm sorry to hear that you have to go through this b/s. I agree with nimuay, but what good is a piece of paper? Are you supposed to pull it out and throw it in his face when he's there harrassing you and its supposed to stop him? Its really hard to say since the police are on his side. Have you tried maybe another precinct/division in your area, or maybe the next "town"? Maybe you should try going that route and explain to them your situation and with any luck they'll be able to assist you. Good luck and may God watch over you and protect you.......

How is he finding you? Is he getting information from somone you know?

If I were you, I would get an "Order of Protection", and start documenting EVERYTHING (i.e. phone calls, and harrassing or menacing behavior etc.). BEFORE you go get the order of protection, write down any events and dates that will support your Order of Protection request. The judge is going to need to see that the Order is necessary. If he is on parole, contact his parole officer.

if you read the article when the truth hurts yo'll see how and why nothing works
the article is on straight talk

pam, I just read the article. How is it that he is getting away with all this? Can you contact the state police regarding the meth lab? I would assume they would start investigating and staking out place. If he is, in fact running the largest meth lab in the state, the FBI might appreciate a phone call, and any tips you have...... just a thought.

Something has got to work pam, he can't keep this behavior up and not be held accountable. If you go to the state police, and talk with them about your WHOLE situation, they may be able to direct you also. Being scared for your life, and the ones you love, is NO WAY TO LIVE.

BABY !!! get the H-E - double hockey sticks outta there and call the national abuse hot line that was sugguested earlier and please be safe don't take your life and your ex's threats litely you only have one life to lose; chose to live. be safe sweetie

Can you not get a court injunction/restraining order, with the power of arrest? If that is not an option or if it doesnt work, then i would up and move! I have done that before. It can be nerve wrecking, starting from scratch and making new friends and stuff, but it just may well give you a piece of mind and some strength... like it did me!