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  1. Growing Old Inside; T'aint Pretty
  2. Finally!
  3. 10+ Thanx PTO!
  4. Long timer!
  5. how can I help him after 15 years?
  6. Go for the thong Eboniizs!
  7. Introductions?
  8. He had me with his first written hello
  9. Living for today...
  10. Happy New Years
  11. He is so optimistic! I feel guilty...
  12. I need help to do this right!
  13. Some Days Are Much Harder Then Others.
  14. 5-15yrs?!
  15. Who gets visits
  16. need to suggestions
  17. Visit withdrawals
  18. what will it be like when he comes home?
  19. Negative Attitudes
  20. Just wanted to introduce myself
  21. How Can I Cope ?
  22. wnted to say hello
  23. Prison Lingo
  24. You guys Rule!
  25. Raymond and Carol's wedding
  26. How Dare She
  27. Salazar's wife needs some advice!
  28. 13years and 6 mos
  29. Just curious?? Have you ever left him?
  30. If He Was Home Where Would You Go With Him
  31. It Is 2004 Now What About 2008, 2009, 2010
  32. can someone help me with a letter to address the senator
  33. where is your loved one located?
  34. What do you write about to keep things fun and fresh?
  35. Salazar's wife has good news
  36. parole????
  37. Does your family know about your relationship?
  38. please sign my petition on 2/5 thank u
  39. 10-20 years..I am staying and I dont care!
  40. We are going through the hardest thing.
  41. My Baby Sent Me A Bird
  42. Is Anyone Else From Australia?
  43. What Will U Do To Keep Busy For The Next 10 Years Or So...
  44. How often do you get to see baby?
  45. I Received A Letter From Commission Goord Dept Of Correct Nys
  46. I am so in love with him
  47. What does he/she call you?
  48. Have the letters shortened with time?
  49. How many of you ladies have a child with your man already?
  50. Are they jealous?
  51. I'm so sick with the flu and I miss him!
  52. Got 2 letters!!!!
  53. What to say?
  54. Ladies how do you feel about...
  55. wedding date moved back one day
  56. Good News / Bad news...
  57. Those of you who arent married ((or even if you are))...do you think you will make it
  58. The Time Does Creep Up On Us Girls...
  59. My Husband Has 11 More Years Can I Write Parole Now?
  60. I Am 36 Been Married 9 Years My Mom Won't Talk About My Husband
  61. Parole setbacks!!!
  62. Just back from my visit..
  63. Miss him but making it.
  64. Hubbie!
  65. denied and broken hearted
  66. Ask Ourselves Honestly How Many Of Us Will Make It Till They Come Home
  67. called down to the regional office in OKC,OK.
  68. Contact Visit
  69. All messed up today!
  70. The Other Post In Husbands/boyfriends Who's Men Are Coming Home
  71. Ok It's Me Again!
  72. Visit anyone?
  73. Opinion is back on the appeal...
  74. Visit day and no visit for me!
  75. Sweet poem from the box.
  76. newspaper article
  77. Having a bad week.
  78. Missing Him
  79. Frustrated!!
  80. Maybe I really want to be bymyself?
  81. Oh I need lots of "HAPPY" & "HOPEFUL" Prayers right now.
  82. I know its too early to be excited but......
  83. feeling down and discouraged
  84. Until 2012... This Is My Time!!!
  85. My Sweetheart
  86. Turned Down
  87. Everybody visiting this weekend...
  88. Shipping him out
  89. Ups and Downs
  90. He may be transferred out of state
  91. Half Way There ???
  92. We Spoke About The Move To Florida For 2006
  93. Will Parole Give Us Our 20th Yr Wedding Anniversary???
  94. technology???
  95. Unexpected call......suprise visit......
  96. Write About The Last 10 Years If You Were With Your Husband...
  97. Thanks Pto
  98. Has he changed?
  99. The Trailer Visits Really Help !!!
  100. applied for clemency
  101. Update on the seperation
  102. For Us Women Only Long Termers....
  103. parole questions
  104. Visitaion after 7 years!!!
  105. Do you think we will be too independent when they come home?
  106. Hey! It's my BIRHDAY!
  107. A Friend Of Mine Is Getting Married But Asked Me Questions I Couldnt Answer
  108. How To Cope
  109. How do you guys deal with the time ???
  110. New York State Law Will Be Passed But For Non Violent No More Parole...
  111. Statistics
  112. Coming Home To A Lonely Apartment
  113. Keep the faith!!!
  114. All Of Us That Have A Long While To Go Please Read And Give Me Your Advise...
  115. Don't know If I can do this....
  116. Been going through it.
  117. I'm being a Pen-friend... what more can I do?
  118. I'm goning throught it now, again..........
  119. Wow what a crazy past month....
  120. Young Luv
  121. What a long time!
  122. Dealing with the time
  123. My First Thread In This Forum.
  124. update to my dealing with the time post
  125. I miss my man!
  126. Would You Marry Your Man If He Was A Lifer???
  127. What kind of goals do you set?
  128. I'm so sick of it!
  129. Stressing over where we'll live
  130. My man wants to write a book.
  131. Do you dream of him often?
  132. It hurts
  133. Waiting For My Husband For 11 Years.
  134. Stay strong!! It wont be long!
  135. I will never let him go.
  136. A prayer to stay strong
  137. Is their family supportive?
  138. Would you have his baby?
  139. How do you help him pass time?
  140. A Picture is Worth A Thousand Words
  141. What do you love most about him/her?
  142. Keeping our hopes in check...
  143. Do you buy things for him even though he is away?
  144. New to this Thread, UPSet
  145. How are you doing with everything?
  146. Lots of questions..new to this whole thing
  147. How Do You Explain???
  148. How do you pass the time?
  149. For Fun
  150. How Long?
  151. What do you do with all your pictures of him?
  152. Letters
  153. Yikes!! I had a panic attack at work!!
  154. I was just wondering how often do your plans change....
  155. Does your man brag....
  156. I was wondering....
  157. 10 Years and Beyond, Please Respond...
  158. hi i'm new here and was wondering
  159. A hustler...
  160. this is soo terrible
  161. This Forum
  162. How is life for them after 10+years?
  163. Does he answer your questions?
  164. I'm in a slump....
  165. I Am Back
  166. Married, out of state, and he's a long term
  167. New here ????
  168. Effects after Long Term Incarceration
  169. DO u ever feel like this?
  170. Shu's are Harmful
  171. This web site
  172. Different religion...
  173. Staying Connected
  174. Guess what?....
  175. I want my life back!!
  176. Am I Fooling Myself?
  177. meaning of dreams?
  178. I get so scared
  179. how long...
  180. How do you deal with the long term affects?
  181. 20+ Years Inside: How is he emotionally?
  182. My Life My Husband Every Day How About You
  183. This hurts...
  184. The "Sad" Holidays Approaching...
  185. ahh how i love the court system... only not!
  186. Things are looking up
  187. Are you his Everything?
  188. How do I show tough love in this situation?
  189. Got my Visit!
  190. How do you do it?
  191. Saw him again..
  192. Reassurances and Guarantees?
  193. He finally met my mom
  194. finally (I saw him and he'll be closer)
  195. Confused
  196. They moved him, etc (long!)
  197. email govenors for family visits
  198. Questions How Will You Go On What Will Keep You Going???
  199. how to keep from being obsessed with the time left to do
  200. How do they deal with guilt?
  201. 22-35yrs.
  202. Time is not moving fast enough.
  203. Holiday depression
  204. For The Longtimers
  205. I'm not the only one
  206. How to Deal with coming home after a long term sentence
  207. Fear of him changing
  208. Almost home after a long bid?
  209. some days are worse than others
  210. New and Questioning
  211. How do I get past this?
  212. Don Diva magazine...I'm in for the long haul
  213. PTO 2005 Conference
  214. Does his crime scare you away?
  215. How much time does your loved one have?
  216. New here
  217. What do I say when they don't have long to wait
  218. He's home after 10...I need input!! PLEASE
  219. different sound in his voice!
  220. Long Sentences & Hoping to have children?
  221. hes 35, and im 21...he still has 8years
  222. Questions on others and loyalty
  223. PTO Day at Cedar Point!
  224. Parole hearing after 30 years
  225. Anyone mind if I sit here for a while?
  226. New Here...
  227. He made it!!
  228. Anyone Dealing with Attempted Murder?
  229. Anyone Dealing With Attempted Murder?
  230. Question regarding Sentencing...
  231. I've been so Sad.. 4/18
  232. Would they care if he truly changed???
  233. long sentencing and wanting children
  234. What changes have you made?
  235. what do u say to ppl who think your man will turn gay?.....
  236. To All Of Us That Are Waiting Is It The Right Thing For Us???
  237. Personal "bedroom" question
  238. what do you all consider "long term sentenced?"
  239. What can I do to reassure him?
  240. What do you do that helps brighten thier day?
  241. What do you do when they act like they DON'T want you to brighten their days?
  242. Flames burning out
  243. What about more children?
  244. Cheap Thrills
  245. Find myself angry at him sometimes - I miss him terribly
  246. New to this forum
  247. 27years how do i cope? PLEASE HELP ME!!
  248. Life could be easier ...
  249. Lately Its Been Hitting Hard...
  250. I Miss Him So Much...I'm really going through it right now...
  251. Court date this Thursday
  252. Give me Hope Ladies!!!!!
  253. When your not sure what the cards are
  254. The years ahead...it feel like torture
  255. Ladies I need your help!!!
  256. Ladies I need your help!!!
  257. To all the ladies who's men have long sentences...
  258. We Have A New Release Date!!!
  259. How Lucky We Really Are..
  260. Down & Out Tonight.. Can't sleep...
  261. Leaving tomorrow evening...
  262. Does it ever feel like a dream?
  263. HELP!! Cant visit my man.. Would you hold on for 9 years??
  264. Any Advice??
  265. 10 years! please tell me if it is possible?
  266. Should I get involved with a Murderer?
  267. What are the possible sexual issues might a long term offender have
  268. problem with 10 years...........
  269. If your guy's been in 15+ years
  270. armed robbery...how many years your man got?
  271. how early can someone get parole?
  272. Finally, I'm Coming Home...
  273. do u have fun at times?............
  274. VERY UNEXPECTED Contact prison visit!!!!!
  275. Fantasy Time!! :)
  276. Loving a long-term offender- Coming Home
  277. What makes loving a long-termer different?
  278. Congical Visits, what can stop them?
  279. Has anyone ever had a bad congical visit?
  280. Am I Stupid For Wanting To Marry Him?
  281. I got a letter
  282. Ladies If You Read My Other Post In Husbands What Would You Do...
  283. Can You Stand The Rain?
  284. Happy Holidays and Luving a Long-termer
  285. nation prison consulants to reduce long sentences?.....
  286. Conspiracy charges??!!!!
  287. Just Checkin' In
  288. Beating Myself Up For What I Dont Know Maybe For Nothing
  289. Years Ago My Stepdad Told Me It's A Fantasy
  290. Social Intelligence/Contact Visits
  291. After The Trailer This Is How It Feels...
  292. How Many Here Are Waiting For Your Man ten years or More?
  293. Have u been w/ your LTSO since the beginning?
  294. new here
  295. Nine More Years Left I Am Looking At Every Year One Yr Closer
  296. My Next Trailer Visit Is March 11
  297. One year down, we can do it!
  298. Have you ever dealt with...(a few things)
  299. We are in this together ladies !
  300. Why Don't We Get Together, Call Each Other... Pls Read
  301. Live chat for loved ones of long-term prisoners
  302. New (to this Forum-NOT PTO!)
  303. Crazy Thoughts ??
  304. Loving a long-term prisoner- weekly chat on Monday nights
  305. Already Did 10 Has 20 Left
  306. Need Some Encouragement
  307. Where Does The Real Betrayal Lie... Long Story
  308. Oh what a day in Federal
  309. Need Help
  310. Im new and the G/f to a Long term sentenced offender....
  311. Things still not better
  312. Any Christian loved ones in Federal Prison?
  313. my friend got sentenced to 9 years, 4 months
  314. We are all in this together! Feb '06
  315. Lost in the 80s
  316. Man when is it going to get Better
  317. I want to be faithful-but I can't, WHAT TO DO????
  318. Haven't been in this forum in awhile
  319. New to PTO / Forum
  320. My first time posting here!!!
  321. Really...really...Long (Any Insight?)
  322. How to Cope with a relationship like this
  323. 2 Letters, I'm Happy
  324. Does the DA usually get the sentence they ask for?
  325. Artificial Insemination ?
  326. i am spiritual married now. only i waiting for him
  327. Im Bella and Im new to posting here.......
  328. Seeing the end of the road of a long-term bid
  329. long time waiting
  330. Easily Distracted ~ Anyone Else? Suggestions?
  331. What Did Ur Love One Do 2get So Much Time??
  332. Where Is Everyone!!!!
  333. Hi I am new here
  334. 30 years down ??? to go
  335. more than 10 years?
  336. He Wants a Child
  337. 2006 PTO Fundraiser
  338. Let's get this forum HOT again !!
  339. What helps you stay strong?!
  340. copping an attitude
  341. Getting to know the "LONG HAUL LADIES"
  342. Why we stay through the "long haul"
  343. New here and a long hauler
  344. New to Caring for the Long haul
  345. He's Being Moved!!!!!!!!
  346. Feeling guilty-Opened my big mouth
  347. Surviving Fights with your Man
  348. Tell Me What Should I Really Do With Having A Baby
  349. Transfer Without Notice...Venting
  350. I need some advice please...
  351. Ladies Why Am I Confused About 9 Years
  352. What to believe and not believe about his long sentence.
  353. Breaking the Ice
  354. Really need the support of this forum!
  355. Long Haul Ladies Idea Room (Thread)
  356. Worried About Savings When He Comes Home
  357. Introducing Myself
  358. How do you all do it?
  359. Question Please Help!
  360. I need some advice. I'm so afraid
  361. I Must Be Honest I Wouldnt Do It Again
  362. family visits?? how many years sent to not have them
  363. UPDATE! My husband's sentencing date
  364. am i wrong? am i a terrible person??
  365. getting married
  366. Living through the Long Haul Chit-Chat Thread
  367. loving him through it all
  368. Thanks to my other Family
  369. UPDATE... He got sentenced
  370. In Love
  371. Does this icky feeling ever go away??
  372. Has anone come home? Need some ???'s
  373. Question about family visits
  374. humm im wondering??? (should we take a break)
  375. introduce myself...
  376. I'm glad I found this site
  377. Holiday Ideas
  378. Mom Needs PENPAL
  379. distant lover
  380. special visits at downstate~
  381. Armed Car-Jacking and Armed Robbery
  382. parole guildlines
  383. so sad and depressed
  384. Help! He's depressed - I'm worried about him
  385. He Sent Me the Sweetest Letter Today,but I'm Worried
  386. When did it get easier for you?
  387. Will the last 2 years be harder (long)
  388. who knows if they are being faithful
  389. He Told Me Yesterday That 29 Men Got Denied
  390. Charged with Assaulting another inmate. Will the charges stick?
  391. Good Intentions...ugh
  392. He just got 20 =( need some advice!!
  393. Having problem Deciding wether to take the plea!! Need Help!!!!!
  394. coping with the long term without hubby
  395. first christmas alone...
  396. Cjays - England , UK Introduction
  397. Self Esteem Issues for Long Termers
  398. Intro--labonitarose from ILL
  399. Setting up a legal fund
  400. I found his release date!!!
  401. He says it's too hard to think about the outside
  402. Life on a FIRST OFFENSE?
  403. i dont know if I can wait...
  404. my boyfriend is serving a quarter of a century
  405. hello everyone! my story....
  406. Possible 10 year Federal for wife
  407. Are they extra grouchy this time of year?
  408. Curious to know your opinion
  409. Feeling the weight...
  410. A new year and a new story...
  411. He Hasnt Been Sentenced Yet But It Is Gonna Be For At Least 10 Years!
  412. My Story
  413. New Here
  414. My Lifer was murdered in Ely State Prison
  415. Life WITH the possibility of parole
  416. missing my baby
  417. Code City
  418. Getting Settled
  419. New Visitors??
  420. My Surprise~~sentence longer than I thought.
  421. Need some advice~how do I help with parole hearing
  422. Question and frustration~am I being over sensitive?
  423. He's Coming Home after 22 years!
  424. long term and sex offences
  425. He has a long sentence and now its just hit me......
  426. TV Documentary Series
  427. We're home - we're home!!!!!!!!!!!!
  428. about me~~he was sentenced to 60 years
  429. We had our first spat!
  430. i get stuck and need advice
  431. Adjusting after 22 years
  432. Taking their head outside the walls
  433. Im 21.. He got sentenced to 20 years.!!
  434. hello everyone.
  435. Feeling Hopeless/Discouraged
  436. 24 and in love....
  437. 25 years in Texas
  438. May Flower's and Loving a Long Term'er'
  439. Just need to vent
  440. 2 month homecoming update
  441. Thoughts anyone?! How do I make it through the wait?
  442. needing a shoulder to cry on....
  443. helloooooo!
  444. my fiance thinks im cheating on him!
  445. June is "springing" for Loving a Long-term Sentenced Offenders
  446. When do you say "enough"
  447. Does anyone do calculations
  448. Firing up the BBQ in July~~Loving a Long-Term Sentenced Offender
  449. Do Others have a Hard time Understanding Why you Wait.
  450. I Dont Know Whats Going On
  451. having a bad day
  452. I want to move on but I dont know if its okay
  453. Please Pray, Parole Hearing Tomorrow
  454. August Friendships Loving a Long Term Offender's
  455. Long Haul Ladies.... Where are you?
  456. Which Road to Travel?
  457. How long has it been since you last visited or how often do you get to visit?
  458. Need Some Advice, I don't know where the relationship is at right now.
  459. He is coming home
  460. September has fallin-Welcome to "Loving a Long-Term Sentenced O
  461. I don't believe this....
  462. My Life Will Change Next Year And One More Year Is Deducted ...
  463. Can't give him what he needs
  464. Artificial Insemination
  465. how long is long term
  466. If you Have Chance of Spending Some Time...
  467. Sentencing Day
  468. People Loving A Long Term Sentenced Offender
  469. October's Edition of Welcome to "Loving a Long-Term Sentenced Offender
  470. ten years
  471. Who Guy Is Locked Up Because Of The Felony Murder Rule
  472. not sure - sometimes i love him..
  473. Hes been senteced 66yrs
  474. 15 years = mean ????
  475. Aawwww! I got flowers today!
  476. Thinking of the future.
  477. I Just Wanna Scream!!!!
  478. I got a letter today...
  479. some things to think about, when he comes home
  480. Giving Thanks in November with the Long Term Sentenced Offenders
  481. The Pain Of Being An Inmates Fiancee
  482. hi i'm new here
  483. Lonely
  484. Pretty new to this and need to know I am not alone
  485. My man got life!
  486. Fiancé wrongfully given 50 years
  487. A New Year for the Long Term Members!!
  488. How Do I Do ThiS?
  489. Whats the DifferencE? Manslaughter vs. Murder?
  490. Any Advice??? He seems to be withdrawing.
  491. What has gotten you through time away from your loved one???
  492. Things Switched-how can I tell if she is for real?
  493. Feeling Lonely. How do you deal with the lonliness?
  494. Do People Think We Are Nuts?
  495. This is all new to me. How do we cope with it all?
  496. Valentines Day: How are You and Yours Celebrating?
  497. Have A Question "Whats 15 to Life Or 15 With Life Means"
  498. February's Loving Hearts and Long-Term Offenders
  499. How Do You Get Through Another Year of This?
  500. Looking for other Kentucky long termers
  501. Wishing Happy Summer Thoughts to all the LONG TERM Sentenced Offender loved ones
  502. Words that help me.....
  503. Has Anyone Had Experience with Sentence Modification or PCR on a Consec Sentence?
  504. So happy I found this site!!!
  505. Letter to judge??
  506. Goals to help pass the time
  507. it's just getting harder
  508. FINALLY good news!
  509. needing encouraging words
  510. scared and confused while awaiting sentencing
  511. Lurker in this forum for awhile now and happy I found it.
  512. Marriage? What are your plans?
  513. not sure how to handle this
  514. New to Forum ~ intro: ntshadow1
  515. Anyone already waited 10 years?
  516. Why does he lie to his family?
  517. Permission to "Play"?
  518. Opening a Savings Account for Your Long-Termer
  519. Doubts from friends and family on our Relationship?
  520. Nervous...awaiting his sentence...how many years?
  521. 15-life How to decide
  522. Life With Parole ?
  523. I must be a terrible person...
  524. Dealing with the Sentence
  525. Started with 16 down to 7 left
  526. Did you know him before...?
  527. How many knew you would never leave
  528. New to this, please give some advice
  529. Do you talk about PTO/Long-Termer's forum
  530. When can he get paroled
  531. Questions to keep letters interesting
  532. New to this forum but not to the long haul
  533. Helping my inmate adjust...need advise!!!!
  534. Lifers and their sentences
  535. Missing My HunnyBunny
  536. Do you get your hopes up when he talks about getting out sooner?
  537. I am ready for him to come home....
  538. June ~ wheres my long haul ladies????
  539. Are you scared you will die before they get home?
  540. How Long Does Your Loved One HAve Left??
  541. How Long Does Your Loved One HAve Left??
  542. A fun thread for us long haulers lol
  543. just found y'all
  544. 45yrs In Prison Has To Serve 75% Of That Time
  545. Long Haulers Happy Day!!!! (jayluvsme)
  546. sentenceing day is on the 17th:(
  547. Do they usually end up doing all their time??
  548. Welcome EVERYONE to the Long Term Offender Forum!!
  549. Any words of advice?
  550. John is home over a year after 22 years inside
  551. Have you tried to appeal the case?
  552. Sex....would you be able to hold out for 17 years?
  553. Do you play "Let's imagine" too?
  554. Did you knew your inmate before or after prison?
  555. today is one of those days
  556. What has been the hardest part so far?
  557. question for the long haulers
  558. wrtting letters???
  559. I want your opinion????
  560. July~~ Happy 4th long term sentence forum!!
  561. I am falling for a lifer
  562. Just a lil thought....
  563. Does anyone else feel this way? Isolating self from places where other couples go?
  564. He's behaving differently lately
  565. Good News From My Boys
  566. I resently began writing to an inmate, any advise?
  567. A New Member of the Long Term Club
  568. Maybe if he was really rehabilitated......
  569. Why do they say that??
  570. grief and anger
  571. pain doesn't fade
  572. making his day
  573. new to this
  574. I Decided to Propose, Not Wait
  575. Things to "un-learn" upon release.
  576. have you started making space
  577. How often do you visit?
  578. Hang on!!!! There IS hope!!!