- Growing Old Inside; T'aint Pretty
- Finally!
- 10+ Thanx PTO!
- Long timer!
- how can I help him after 15 years?
- Go for the thong Eboniizs!
- Introductions?
- He had me with his first written hello
- Living for today...
- Happy New Years
- He is so optimistic! I feel guilty...
- I need help to do this right!
- Some Days Are Much Harder Then Others.
- 5-15yrs?!
- Who gets visits
- need to suggestions
- Visit withdrawals
- What will it be like when he comes home?
- Negative Attitudes
- Just wanted to introduce myself
- How Can I Cope ?
- wnted to say hello
- Prison Lingo
- You guys Rule!
- Raymond and Carol's wedding
- How Dare She
- Salazar's wife needs some advice!
- 13years and 6 mos
- Just curious?? Have you ever left him?
- If He Was Home Where Would You Go With Him
- It Is 2004 Now What About 2008, 2009, 2010
- can someone help me with a letter to address the senator
- where is your loved one located?
- What do you write about to keep things fun and fresh?
- Salazar's wife has good news
- parole????
- Does your family know about your relationship?
- please sign my petition on 2/5 thank u
- 10-20 years..I am staying and I dont care!
- We are going through the hardest thing.
- My Baby Sent Me A Bird
- Is Anyone Else From Australia?
- What Will U Do To Keep Busy For The Next 10 Years Or So...
- How often do you get to see baby?
- I Received A Letter From Commission Goord Dept Of Correct Nys
- I am so in love with him
- What does he/she call you?
- Have the letters shortened with time?
- How many of you ladies have a child with your man already?
- Are they jealous?
- I'm so sick with the flu and I miss him!
- Got 2 letters!!!!
- What to say?
- Ladies how do you feel about...
- wedding date moved back one day
- Good News / Bad news...
- Those of you who arent married ((or even if you are))...do you think you will make it
- The Time Does Creep Up On Us Girls...
- My Husband Has 11 More Years Can I Write Parole Now?
- I Am 36 Been Married 9 Years My Mom Won't Talk About My Husband
- Parole setbacks!!!
- Just back from my visit..
- Miss him but making it.
- Hubbie!
- denied and broken hearted
- Ask Ourselves Honestly How Many Of Us Will Make It Till They Come Home
- called down to the regional office in OKC,OK.
- Contact Visit
- All messed up today!
- The Other Post In Husbands/boyfriends Who's Men Are Coming Home
- Ok It's Me Again!
- Visit anyone?
- Opinion is back on the appeal...
- Visit day and no visit for me!
- Sweet poem from the box.
- newspaper article
- Having a bad week.
- Missing Him
- Frustrated!!
- Maybe I really want to be bymyself?
- Oh I need lots of "HAPPY" & "HOPEFUL" Prayers right now.
- I know its too early to be excited but......
- feeling down and discouraged
- Until 2012... This Is My Time!!!
- My Sweetheart
- Turned Down
- Everybody visiting this weekend...
- Shipping him out
- Ups and Downs
- He may be transferred out of state
- Half Way There ???
- We Spoke About The Move To Florida For 2006
- Will Parole Give Us Our 20th Yr Wedding Anniversary???
- technology???
- Unexpected call......suprise visit......
- Write About The Last 10 Years If You Were With Your Husband...
- Thanks Pto
- Has he changed?
- The Trailer Visits Really Help !!!
- applied for clemency
- Update on the seperation
- For Us Women Only Long Termers....
- parole questions
- Visitaion after 7 years!!!
- Do you think we will be too independent when they come home?
- Hey! It's my BIRHDAY!
- A Friend Of Mine Is Getting Married But Asked Me Questions I Couldnt Answer
- How To Cope
- How do you guys deal with the time ???
- New York State Law Will Be Passed But For Non Violent No More Parole...
- Statistics
- Coming Home To A Lonely Apartment
- Keep the faith!!!
- All Of Us That Have A Long While To Go Please Read And Give Me Your Advise...
- Don't know If I can do this....
- Been going through it.
- I'm being a Pen-friend... what more can I do?
- I'm goning throught it now, again..........
- Wow what a crazy past month....
- Young Luv
- What a long time!
- Dealing with the time
- My First Thread In This Forum.
- update to my dealing with the time post
- I miss my man!
- Would You Marry Your Man If He Was A Lifer???
- What kind of goals do you set?
- I'm so sick of it!
- Stressing over where we'll live
- My man wants to write a book.
- Do you dream of him often?
- It hurts
- Waiting For My Husband For 11 Years.
- Stay strong!! It wont be long!
- I will never let him go.
- A prayer to stay strong
- Is their family supportive?
- Would you have his baby?
- How do you help him pass time?
- A Picture is Worth A Thousand Words
- What do you love most about him/her?
- Keeping our hopes in check...
- Do you buy things for him even though he is away?
- New to this Thread, UPSet
- How are you doing with everything?
- Lots of questions..new to this whole thing
- How Do You Explain???
- How do you pass the time?
- For Fun
- How Long?
- What do you do with all your pictures of him?
- Letters
- Yikes!! I had a panic attack at work!!
- I was just wondering how often do your plans change....
- Does your man brag....
- I was wondering....
- 10 Years and Beyond, Please Respond...
- hi i'm new here and was wondering
- A hustler...
- this is soo terrible
- This Forum
- How is life for them after 10+years?
- Does he answer your questions?
- I'm in a slump....
- I Am Back
- Married, out of state, and he's a long term
- New here ????
- Effects after Long Term Incarceration
- DO u ever feel like this?
- Shu's are Harmful
- This web site
- Different religion...
- Helpful tips for the long haul / Staying Connected
- Guess what?....
- I want my life back!!
- Am I Fooling Myself?
- meaning of dreams?
- I get so scared
- how long...
- How do you deal with the long term affects?
- 20+ Years Inside: How is he emotionally?
- My Life My Husband Every Day How About You
- This hurts...
- The "Sad" Holidays Approaching...
- ahh how i love the court system... only not!
- Things are looking up
- Are you his Everything?
- How do I show tough love in this situation?
- Got my Visit!
- How do you do it?
- Saw him again..
- Reassurances and Guarantees?
- He finally met my mom
- finally (I saw him and he'll be closer)
- Confused
- They moved him, etc (long!)
- email govenors for family visits
- Questions How Will You Go On What Will Keep You Going???
- how to keep from being obsessed with the time left to do
- How do they deal with guilt?
- 22-35yrs.
- Time is not moving fast enough.
- Holiday depression
- For The Longtimers
- I'm not the only one
- How to Deal with coming home after a long term sentence
- Fear of him changing
- Almost home after a long bid?
- some days are worse than others
- New and Questioning
- How do I get past this?
- Don Diva magazine...I'm in for the long haul
- PTO 2005 Conference
- Does his crime scare you away?
- How much time does your loved one have?
- New here
- What do I say when they don't have long to wait
- He's home after 10...I need input!! PLEASE
- different sound in his voice!
- Long Sentences & Hoping to have children?
- hes 35, and im 21...he still has 8years
- Questions on others and loyalty
- PTO Day at Cedar Point!
- Parole hearing after 30 years
- Anyone mind if I sit here for a while?
- New Here...
- He made it!!
- Anyone Dealing with Attempted Murder?
- Anyone Dealing With Attempted Murder?
- Question regarding Sentencing...
- I've been so Sad.. 4/18
- Would they care if he truly changed???
- Long sentencing and wanting children
- What changes have you made?
- what do u say to ppl who think your man will turn gay?.....
- To All Of Us That Are Waiting Is It The Right Thing For Us???
- Personal "bedroom" question
- what do you all consider "long term sentenced?"
- What can I do to reassure him?
- What do you do that helps brighten thier day?
- What do you do when they act like they DON'T want you to brighten their days?
- Flames burning out
- What about more children?
- Cheap Thrills
- Find myself angry at him sometimes - I miss him terribly
- New to this forum
- 27years how do i cope? PLEASE HELP ME!!
- Life could be easier ...
- Lately Its Been Hitting Hard...
- I Miss Him So Much...I'm really going through it right now...