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  1. Any REAL hope?
  2. What to say
  3. my daddy........
  4. Sticky... On Lifers and Employment
  5. Interesting Canadian program for Lifers
  6. Inmates Reputation "inside"
  7. Appealing Life...
  8. marrying a lifer
  9. Is it good for them to hold on to hope?
  10. How much time do "lifers" actually do?
  11. My story....we've got to be there for our loved ones
  12. Lifers "rights"
  13. Lifers In A Dying System
  14. California Lifers support group
  15. What If it were YOUR child or Loved One?
  16. Count-Time...(Kites for Life)
  17. Life After Death Row
  18. Finally sent book "Soup For the Prisoners Soul"
  19. Ladies and Gents, Isabel got me...
  20. Chance for Parole
  21. can LWOP prisoners ever be released?
  22. Congratulations!!!
  23. Disturbing
  24. parole eligibility interview
  25. Why does he refuse to fight for his freedom? And when is it too late?
  26. Questionnaire on Daily LIFE
  27. Family Visits for Lifers with a date?
  28. Girl Talk
  29. Housing & Employment For Lifers
  30. Canteen & personal property for Lifers
  31. Contact/phones/mail for Lifers
  32. Education/Programs/Religions/Libraries for Lifers
  33. Keichii,.. thought on Depression.
  34. "Doing Without" Questions and My response
  35. Michigan Lifer
  36. hey Girl talk NEW LOOKS SURPRISE~~~
  37. Just Wondering From Missouri
  38. Christmas Girl Talk for Lifer Ladies
  39. A related topic...Longterm jail for lifers..
  40. Contact Visit
  41. My Brother's a Lifer
  42. Stupid Question For Lifer's Gf Or Wifes
  43. just a little curious - restrictions on Lifers
  44. parole deferred another ten years
  45. My Man is an angel!!
  46. What are the chances of given a date first time up for parole?
  47. what would you do?
  48. Parole possible after 30 years?
  49. HELP.. need some advice/suggestions help!
  50. Told lets take break!
  51. ~Re-trail for LWOP's~
  52. My "SON" got LIFE yesterday ...
  53. Question for "us" Lifers?
  54. Not waiting in the lifer lane...Moved from H/B in Prison
  55. Making the "Lifers" forum more.....
  56. Coping with the realities of LIFE
  57. Posting on Lifers Forum
  58. About Family Visits
  59. maybe you guys can help me out
  60. In sickness, in health, in-carceration, in for Life.
  61. Anyone in Attica in Early 60's?
  62. Folsom Prison Status
  63. Laws In Maryland for Lifers
  64. more lifers in VA on parole
  65. lwop
  66. Finally!!!
  67. lwop
  68. ~New Tread, old post~
  69. ~A question of balance~
  70. more life sentences
  71. Should lifers have hope?
  72. Does your man ever pick on you like mine does?
  73. Lifer Visits...
  74. What should I do... (long):(
  75. lifers
  76. Them Old Lifer Blues...
  77. Starting the PTO Lifer's Blues Band...
  78. Some things I thought I should share
  79. Hello
  80. Here I go again! and how was your visit?
  81. Spyda Who???
  82. Is there anyone out there who is married to a lifer?
  83. General Lifer Information
  84. Clemency? What are the chances?
  85. A ? for those on the lifer board...
  86. Wooooooo Hoooooooooo
  87. Lifer Family Introductions
  88. law book needed
  89. 2 Months Until Parole Hearing
  90. Simply Sharing
  91. Got a "date" with my lifer
  92. My husband is so sweet!!
  93. Anyone going to be interviewed?
  94. Suggestions and Feedback
  95. Are there any men in here?
  96. Marrying A Lifer.
  97. Lifers!!!! How IS everybody?
  98. I cant find any college courses!!
  99. Do you guys ever.......????
  100. It's done and over with
  101. what state is everyone from? and etc.
  102. Could use your love and prayers right now!!
  103. LWOP/ Family visits ????
  104. Doin HARD Time
  105. How many of you could stay with a lifer?
  106. im so mad at myself :(
  107. Accepting things as they are
  108. Bad day!!!
  109. a Lifer
  110. Whats new in the Lifers Forum?
  111. How do they do it?
  112. A little joy to the forums!!!!
  113. Arrgg!! He's in the hole and I don't know why!!
  114. Advantages of non-contact visits!!! (Go figure, we had a good visit in Ad-Seg Unit)
  115. Just waking up is hard
  116. Hubby is going to IMU
  117. Crying
  118. Hi there
  119. Hi There 2
  120. Ronnie is so proud of me....
  121. How do you deal with LIFE
  122. HELP Confusion has Struck
  123. Good News!
  124. Will He Ever Come Home? Please Help
  125. Finally...Happy girl here
  126. Not a rant, just a whimper...
  127. Its good to be back
  128. Hubby is bored and driving me crazy!
  129. Letters From Lifers
  130. Any children of lifers here?
  131. MIxes messages
  132. Can i ask for a birthday shout
  133. Dumbfellas!!!!
  134. Indeterminate SHU sentences
  135. Welcome new Lifer Supporters
  136. Can u marry a lifer at PBSB?
  137. long loves
  138. My cell phone is going to....:)
  139. Happy Birthday Yasmeen!!!
  140. Plannin a visit!
  141. I met his mom!!!
  142. Level 4 at Centinela, Califonia
  143. ON Lockdown !!
  144. Why did they throw it all away? (venting)
  145. Lifer
  146. (sighs) A hard thought...
  147. Hi Lifers
  148. heya!
  149. What is our chance for parole
  150. Taking a Rest Stop to Unload
  151. Hubby won IMU appeal!
  152. serving life beside my man
  153. More good news?
  154. Just need an ear that understands....
  155. Great News!!!!!
  156. Court transcripts??
  157. Unfair Shu
  158. Something's missing...
  159. A BIG thank you
  160. Taking my visits for granted!
  161. My Daughter Misses Her Dad
  162. WOW I missed you guys!!!! But I have a question.
  163. He's a nut job!
  164. Thread counts
  165. do you/ your guy dream of being free?
  166. He asked me again!
  167. What kind of reading material for your lifer?
  168. Does your lifer get to wear street clothes?
  169. Sending pictures
  170. Telling your lifer about PTO
  171. Does your lifer get to go to classification?
  172. Question about lifers??
  173. Arrright, Lifer Lovers!!
  174. visiting my lifer ..........
  175. The Meaning of Life
  176. A day in the shoes of a LIFER
  177. Arnie frees record number of jail 'lifers'
  178. Parole reform for lifers
  179. Points for lifers??
  180. How to deal with unsupportive family members
  181. My guy lost his good time!!
  182. Effects of life imprisonment
  183. A familiar Lifer story
  184. Lifers Crowd Prisons
  185. looking for support
  186. my visits may be suspended
  187. my thoughtful lifer
  188. Phone calls from lifers?
  189. need suggestion/gift idea for my guy
  190. 1st anniversary
  191. Giving Threads Proper Titles
  192. Mother in Law trouble!!
  193. Do you get to talk to inmates on this site?
  194. He's being weird...
  195. Am I the only one sitting home on a Sat. night?
  196. some clemency questions
  197. lifer blues
  198. MIL called me!!
  199. high profile lifer .............
  200. Suspended for two months
  201. Penwife (and quite a few others) were right...
  202. Counters for lifers too?
  203. Any lifers from the East SF Bay Area?
  204. missing my lifer .........
  205. holiday blues.......
  206. Hey Lifer Girls, Happy Halloween!!!
  207. lifer Hubby got letter from my MIL.
  208. Got letter number 50 today! (but who's counting????)
  209. what kind of family support does your lifer have?
  210. Is your lifer your soulmate?
  211. PTO/Lifer Girls!! Give my man some support!!
  212. A tough week for lifers in Cali
  213. Family Visits
  214. So stupid! My evil twin is messing me up!!!
  215. My lifer says thank you!
  216. Same Ole Lifer Life
  217. Accepting him being a lifer...it's too hard!
  218. I got GREAT news!!!
  219. Feeling Guilty:(
  220. A question about SHU and getting out of there???
  221. Yep, it was temporary insanity!
  222. Starting a project
  223. Definition of a 'lifer'
  224. Feeling very powerless
  225. Something that might help
  226. Hi there again!
  227. Happy Birthday to our forum moderator!
  228. ~Dawn's Vacation!~
  229. Loving a Lifer?
  230. Happy Thanksgiving Lifers
  231. Hey Lifers Look what I got!
  232. Everyone against me marrying my lifer
  233. I miss my lifer!! (venting!!!)
  234. New/old wife, In Denial - how long it takes to get "here"?
  235. He's out of ink... (a fast vent)
  236. Lifer Ladies, I got attacked...(not really)
  237. Merry Christmas/ Happy Holidays To Our Lifers!
  238. Finally letters!
  239. It's raining men!!!
  240. Would you or Wouldn't you?
  241. Got my letter!
  242. Who has holiday plans?
  243. Christmas Shopping Done
  244. i miss my lifer call.....................
  245. Lifer's, I am Tired
  246. I need some honest advice!
  247. Lifers, I got a GOOD letter today!!!!!
  248. i finally got the calll..........................
  249. YAAAAAAAAYYYY!!!!! My lifer's been moved!!!!!!!!!
  250. Married my lifer !!! mixed emotions???
  251. My lifer told me he had feelings...
  252. Just Wish He Had an Outdate
  253. Lifers Club news
  254. My lifer on Christmas
  255. Merry Christmas lifers
  256. Dang I missed his call!!
  257. Lifer Family!! How was your Christmas?
  258. no call from my lifer...............
  259. Lifer Family! Any New Year Resolutions !?!
  260. Iam New But Need Help From Others
  261. I am back!
  262. Lifers: Happy 2005!
  263. Don't know what to think anymore
  264. Just wanted to say hi....
  265. Hi-di-ho! Dawn's Back!
  266. I'm New Here and Saying Hello
  267. Lifer Koffee Klutch - Daily Pick-me ups and Ketchups!
  268. I have a question for you lifers
  269. Questions about a life sentence in Texas
  270. The "possibility" of 50 years
  271. Just a little sad
  272. The Future
  273. my lifer lost his last appeal
  274. Scheduled Lifer Chat?
  275. Finally!! A visit with my lifer!!
  276. This lifer girl feels better!!
  277. Told My Lifer About This Forum
  278. Happy anniversary with your lifer, MiaBellaAngela!!
  279. Wanna Grow Old With Him
  280. Good News
  281. Just Wondering (did you marry your lifer after he was incarcerated)
  282. My Lifer's Doubts and Insecurities
  283. I'm new to the lifers forum...how to stay strong loving a lifer?
  284. Lifer Koffee Klutch - Daily Pick-me ups and Ketchups! Feb '05 Edition
  285. Need to B**** (vent)
  286. Stories of Hope
  287. Visit with my lifer -- getting to know him again
  288. Really, good news, no great news!!!!
  289. Another blow for lifers in Cali....
  290. He asked: "Is just loving me enough?"
  291. Guess what chicas, I'm going to his cellie's wedding!!!
  292. Coping With Depression
  293. Nervous (rather long)
  294. Received a 2 Cards yesterday
  295. Happy Valentines Day Lifer Sisters!
  296. Feeling a little sad
  297. I can't remember the last time I was this depressed
  298. Liability insurance for my lifer?
  299. Would you do it again
  300. finally got a call from my lifer
  301. My lifer goes to board March 2005
  302. Possible changes in 3-strike law Washington
  303. I stopped caring -- or do I care too much???
  304. How Do I Answer His Concerns
  305. Any German here... friend or in love with a "lifer"?
  306. Back again
  307. Lifer Koffee Klutch - Daily Pick-me ups and Ketchups! March '05 Edition
  308. My lifers petition
  309. helping my friend til the end
  310. Lifers "Programs"????
  311. Would you change places for 24 hrs
  312. High Profile Cases
  313. Victim advocates decry parole reform
  314. Thought I'd say Hello
  315. Anyome familiear with commuting a sentence?
  316. EVERYONE PLEASE READ MAN IS IN NEED OF HELP DONE 41yrs on a life sentence in NC
  317. PTO Day at Cedar Point - Sandusky Ohio - July 9th!
  318. question (what is the chance of him only serving 15yrs of a life sentence)
  319. Question Re: Parole for Lifers
  320. outdate
  321. Happy Easter - Lifers
  322. Lifers and conjugal visits
  323. experience about administrative segregation?
  324. he's facing life
  325. Am I not normal for loving my lifer???
  326. My inmate doesn't want me to visit
  327. Lifer Koffee Klutch - Daily Pick-me ups and Ketchups! April '05 Edition
  328. Life Means Life
  329. he is lashing out on me
  330. Well done Abelle!!!
  331. A town of guns and lifers...
  332. "Other People Just Don't Understand!"
  333. The Dreaded When Is He Coming Home Question
  334. Joining my lifer fam!
  335. First Visit
  336. Anyone Dealing With Attempted Murder?
  337. Pick me ! Pick me !
  338. Help!Anybody made experience that lifer (without parole) got paroled?
  339. lot of headaches in my future
  340. Starting all over again... for life
  341. It's a Trust Issue
  342. Need Advice!!!!!!
  343. A Warm Lifer Sister Welcome To Our New Moderator(((lop)))))))))
  344. Need advice: Feel betrayed by friend
  345. My Lifer gave me my Mothers Day gift today....
  346. Thank you PTO
  347. shine some light....
  348. The laws,The Government, our freedoms
  349. Lifer Koffee Klutch - Daily Pick-me ups and Ketchups! May '05 Edition
  350. It's Not My Baby's Fault
  351. His best friend is getting out - and he has to stay behind
  352. Lifer Chat - Lets vote!
  353. Decision - stay with my Lifer or not? (long)
  354. Wanting to come out of the closet......
  355. It is Over!
  356. Just as I feared... he's in the hole
  357. Happy Mothers Day Lifers!
  358. Talking but not Communicating
  359. Not a Couple Anymore
  360. Have you accepted it?
  361. family visits
  362. am i crazy
  363. Should I relocate to be near my boo......
  364. Falling for a lifer
  365. Having A Hard Time With His Sentence
  366. Back on Track
  367. Leave it in Gods Hands
  368. Tell your story on 20-20
  369. am I welcome?
  370. Being harrassed by the CO's
  371. Please choose a chat time/day!
  372. How many PTO Lifer Members are from OHio and what part?
  373. Need PTO member input about a very important issue
  374. FIRST contact visit.. in 7 years!
  375. news
  376. why get married?
  377. I'm starting to think Is he is better off with us...
  378. He told me he loves me.
  379. Need a little love from my lifer family...others welcome also...:)
  380. Need to vent please
  381. Lifer Koffee Klutch - Daily Pick-me ups and Ketchups! June '05 Edition
  382. Do You Get Frustrated
  383. Those with lifer "friends" -- true confession time
  384. Stop by and Congratulate betrayed_4_life.
  385. Aging Inmates
  386. I Need Advice Help Please
  387. Should I write my (EX) Lifer?
  388. New Bill in congress-Take a look-for non-violent offenders
  389. Does Your Lifer Stay In Touch with Family
  390. Is this a Good or Bad Idea (a website about his case?)
  391. Tax Question for Lifers Wives
  392. You know you're involved with a lifer when...
  393. hello
  394. Hello
  395. My EX lifer wrote back
  396. Loving my lifer!! It's just me being mushy!!
  397. Lifer Koffee Klutch - Daily Pick-me ups and Ketchups! July '05 Edition
  398. I'm So Confused. Its Driving Me nuts!
  399. My last visit
  400. torn between 2 inmates help please I need advice
  401. What do you say when people ask you when is he coming home????
  402. A "just friends" letter
  403. frustrating me
  404. Dad in Cummins for 22 years and counting.
  405. Rough Time of Year for My Lifer
  406. We're back to contact visits again -- overwhelming
  407. The "What Can He Do For You" Comment
  408. HAPPY THREAD: Little lifer moments...
  409. feeling a little down lately........need to vent again !!!
  410. How Do You Feel When Friends Men Come Home
  411. Talk about ending sentence "early"?
  412. Hats Off To You Standing By Your Lifers
  413. Who's In Recovery?
  414. Did You Move To Be Near Your Lifer?
  415. Curious (do any of the lifer sisters visit the "When the relationship is over" forum?
  416. "My" Lifer wants me back/Got apology
  417. I Just Hate His Sentence
  418. Help please ladies !!!!!!!!!
  419. Who ask Who ?
  420. Losing it I think! Help
  421. Hearing coming up
  422. Fighting through it all
  423. family visits-ny (for lifers)
  424. news (Updates on my lifer)
  425. Lifer Koffee Klutch - Daily Pick-me ups and Ketchups! August '05 Edition
  426. No letter--crappy job
  427. Appeal
  428. this is not right !
  429. Do You Discuss his Life Sentence
  430. Getting married!!!
  431. finally!
  432. comments
  433. My Lifers Son(long)
  434. Pure Love is a Powerful Motive
  435. career and marriage to a prisoner
  436. Lifers sisters, please help me.
  437. Questions for those married to a lifer
  438. Back from My Lifer Visit
  439. Help me and my hubby are fighting need advice before i end it
  440. 1st visit with my lifer
  441. Lifer CHAT---/UPDATE CHAT CANCELED UNTIL FURTHER NOTICE
  442. Life with the possibility of Parole!
  443. Broke up
  444. Just want to vent!
  445. family visits
  446. Lovers AND friends?
  447. Just Friends Of Lifers??
  448. Please Help!what Does This Mean For My Lifer?
  449. I think I am jinxed!
  450. Marrying My Lifer in 16 days
  451. If you Love A lifer please read this
  452. Lifer Koffee Klutch - Daily Pick-me ups and Ketchups! September '05 Edition!
  453. I think I am jinxed, UPDATE
  454. Lov w/lifer
  455. update on my break up got a letter
  456. feeling the need to share LifewBuzz
  457. Life Sentence Reduction?
  458. Lifers Sisters Venting A Little
  459. 2nd update on my breakup got a response to my separation agreement need advice help
  460. My break up my husband wrote his daughter a letter about it
  461. penwife is new Forum leader for the Lifer's Forum.
  462. Plans to marry a lifer
  463. Questions for those supporting a lifer
  464. My lifer
  465. His Family Says They Will Visit, never does
  466. Lifer Family!! Please welcome qwerty as our new Research Assistant!!!
  467. A letter from my baby :(
  468. Yeah A Good Surprise Visit For My Lifer
  469. I think I've found my appropriate corner here
  470. Article: Board Illegally Denying Lifers Parole
  471. ' Lifers Lounge' Break Room!! Sept-Oct addition!!
  472. I.Am.Having.A.Rough.Day.
  473. Questions about Parole Board
  474. Lifer chat anyone?
  475. Convincing My Mom to Meet My Lifer
  476. I am having a nervous breakdown...
  477. What kind of visits can your lifer have?
  478. Finally...it came, but I'm confused
  479. I Stopped Discussing his Life Sentence
  480. Lifers! Question about intimate letters
  481. Lifer Family! What is a "Mail-Dance"?
  482. Lifers,what is your happiest memory?
  483. anyone just have THOSE days?
  484. Waiting on Parole Decision
  485. whats da deal with your relationship?.....
  486. How old is your lifer? How long has he/she been down?
  487. I Finally talked to him!
  488. Did You Google Your Man
  489. CA-Lifers Families
  490. Appealing Life Sentence
  491. What exactly IS a life-sentence?
  492. Lifers Who Got Out Stories
  493. Interstate Transfers
  494. Lifers and The Blues
  495. Lifer Chat/UPDATE-Password For Chat...
  496. Does His Family Know of You??
  497. Would You Wait For Him To Propose To You??
  498. a little down again
  499. His Blues Rubbing off on Me venting
  500. The Difference a Lifer can make
  501. Books on "loving a lifer"??
  502. How do I cope with my Son's life sentence?
  503. Im new
  504. NYS Parole Work
  505. Denied
  506. A Question that I asked(what would your lifer do with 24 hours of freedom?)
  507. Maybe Someone Can Explain To Me
  508. Are They Allowed To Hospital Visits
  509. Lifers lounge, Break Room!!! Happy Thanksgiving!!!!
  510. Kids getting locked up
  511. Would like to know about prison profiles...
  512. In the SHU
  513. it's not a fantasy
  514. Need Some Advice, Please :)
  515. He said it first...
  516. No Mail!!
  517. Me and my Hubby tring to make it work
  518. Got Life But Didn't Kill Anyone
  519. It's Over! Am I wrong!
  520. How old (or young)to be a lifer???
  521. From life to 40 years
  522. Please need help Husband's at Supreme Court Level
  523. mourning Brother-Needs Support
  524. I've Put This Forum Off Long Enough
  525. I WAS APPROVED!!! I am seeing my Baby TOMORROW!
  526. I am home from Visit #1!
  527. Missing My Honey
  528. Does your lifer feel out of touch with the world??
  529. I feel Like Throwing in the Towel
  530. A Lifer With An Appeal Pending
  531. New to Life Forum but not new to PTO
  532. What happen to the lifers chat?
  533. Really Tough Visits
  534. Lifer Lounge December edition!!!
  535. Don't Forget About The Lifers Chat Tonight
  536. I'm new to all this....
  537. His Familys Reaction to Marriage Negative
  538. Does Your Lifer Accept their Sentence
  539. About several life sentences
  540. 25-Life WOP
  541. I am sad about my Lifer
  542. Christmas Spirit - From a Lifer
  543. Lifer peeps - how was your year? Hopes for the new year?
  544. Hi Lifers!
  545. Honestly, how many times have you given up?
  546. My lifer's going to college!!
  547. Lifer Lounge!! Jan 06' edition
  548. Measuring The Quality of Lifer Love
  549. my husband makes me smile
  550. Worried about my sweetie
  551. Morbid, but have you discussed purchasing funeral plots with your lifer in prison?
  552. My Lifer's Family Takes The Cake
  553. intro ....... in love with a lifer
  554. In Memory of a valued life
  555. Something weird happened!
  556. need help/question regarding conjugals for lifers
  557. Have questions regarding funerals
  558. I may be the wife of a lifer soon (cant stop crying)
  559. I love a lifer, and my introduction
  560. I let Go of the Lifer who I was with.....
  561. Everything is Fine, Then One Day it Just HITS
  562. i cant take it, seriously
  563. Please welcome abelle as the Lifer forums newest RA!!
  564. Still here, but tired
  565. Loving someone who is in for life.........
  566. I have been banned from visits
  567. Question For Women Waiting For Lifers
  568. Things That Make you Go Hmmmmm...
  569. I'm ready to tell our story
  570. Is it cheating?
  571. I am Blown Away, I read all his court transcripts
  572. Hello fellow Lifer Loves!
  573. strange thing happening don't know why!please help!!!
  574. Question for Those Who've Been Doing this a While
  575. A Letter to those who lost a loved one to sucide.
  576. Lifer Lounge!! Happy Valentines Day!!!!!!
  577. Are any of you in the Appeals Process?
  578. Lifer supporters, may I ask some questions?
  579. Please Welcome Shiva65 as the Lifers forum newest FL!
  580. A smile on a sad day
  581. His Family Never Stops (venting again)
  582. Ever feel angry?
  583. Update to his "crazy" aunt....sorry so long
  584. I admire you all
  585. Just missing my baby and worried
  586. How Our Loved Ones Are Exploited
  587. The Emotional Rollercoaster
  588. Aw heck, I'm feeling alll mushy...
  589. Is he cheating? (Update)
  590. I am so upset!
  591. ' Lifer Lounge' March 06 edition!
  592. I'm confused in my heart girls!!!
  593. How much time do you do with a Life Sentence?
  594. The Photo Thread for Lifer Lovers!
  595. How Do We Get Thru it??
  596. The possibility of being paroled when old
  597. Opening Appellate Brief due 3/23
  598. I talked to a forensic Dr. today!
  599. If Your Lifer Could Come Home Soon
  600. When the gavel went down
  601. Life Appeals In Colorado- Help!
  602. Lifer Moved. Whereabouts Unknown
  603. Lifer First Birthday Visit EVER
  604. living abroad too and falling in love with a lifer
  605. abroadgirl be to abroadgirl uk
  606. Wasn't sure I fit this forum
  607. I Have Been MIA From this Forum for a while but I'm back
  608. what does ''life'' mean??
  609. Question if You are Married to a Lifer
  610. Lifer lounge!! April 06 edition!!!
  611. The Lifer's Blues Band II
  612. Happy Easter!
  613. "Our Song"
  614. The Pathologist has received our case!!!
  615. Paintings he sent
  616. Do you think you would have met out here and how
  617. Will he ever go home serving life?
  618. For those of you standing by your loved one for life
  619. Little Sad About Comments My Lifer Made
  620. My Love Is A Lifer- Intro Angelstellar
  621. Stressed out about my Hubby's Hearing
  622. Husbands Best Friend Tried to Kill Himself(long)
  623. He's giving up...
  624. Lifer Lounge! May 06 !!!Stop And Smell The Flowers!!!
  625. Spoiling your baby....
  626. I need answers (parole granted for lifers?)
  627. Lifers Forum Moderators?
  628. Hubby and I are in a HUGE FIGHT I will be offline a while
  629. a little down ... need to talk
  630. My Daddy Has Life
  631. How The World Changes
  632. I just missed his call
  633. Thought I'd give an update on our case....
  634. This sucks!!!!!
  635. For the Love of Jamie
  636. Lifer lounge June summer is here!
  637. What Sweet Pet Names Do You Use??
  638. Ticket users??
  639. The Tavern of Lost Souls
  640. i'm new
  641. Make sure you loved one updates their contacts.
  642. Is Your Loved One EVER Coming Home?
  643. Ever get REALLY depressed?
  644. HAPPY BIRTHDAY LES~JKB's Girl
  645. Reason to not marry (in prison)
  646. From the mouths of babes whats your opinion?
  647. Apologies Offered Up
  648. Lifer Lounge! Fireworks and picnics!
  649. Resources for ME
  650. Intro - NC_Queen
  651. hi Lifer forum!
  652. inmates having female friends
  653. Got my father's ashes this week.
  654. Need a little vent time
  655. First Time Crying at End of Visit
  656. Please Help For Family Visits
  657. His Sentence Is Life W/possible Parole
  658. The Wreckage of His Past
  659. ...felt like breath knocked out of me
  660. Need Advice: The Appeal Process
  661. Is Geocities blacklisting free sites for inmates?
  662. Help! (Boyfriend got a life sentence)
  663. Lifer Lounge for August 2006
  664. soooo nervous!!(first visit with Lifer!)
  665. Dungeons Are Hospitals
  666. yeah (intro to the lifer forum)
  667. Any successful lifer appeals? need encouragement!
  668. twittermen's Loving a Lifer Introduction
  669. How do you keep a Lifer "up to Date"
  670. Help my heart needs to know!
  671. Have You Moved to Be Closer to Your Lifer?
  672. Just wanting to share my news
  673. I dont understand
  674. Our First Visit
  675. New Here: Question
  676. Can he do too much?
  677. Back to school its september 2006 LIFERS LOUNGE
  678. Another Woman???? (do you wonder about COs?)
  679. First Brush With Confinement, What Do I Do Now???
  680. In desperate need of moral support
  681. What can I do to bring up my lifers spirits?
  682. Having a hard time.. Any Advice?
  683. Murder in the 2nd Degree? [sentence question]
  684. Happy October Lifer Lounge!!!!
  685. Another update...or two!
  686. Loving a Lifer
  687. I Can't Expect Him To Roll Over And Take It. Or Can I?
  688. Ngri ???
  689. Ladies It Is Getting To Be That Time Of Year...
  690. do you talk to your teens and young adults about sex?
  691. I Got My Lifer Back Today!!! *Does happy Dance*
  692. Need Advice Jail House Lawyer Bothering Me
  693. why doesnt everyone deserve atleast one second chance
  694. 15-Life in the appeals process in Ohio ~ Any Advice?
  695. What to do...
  696. Welcome to the Lifer's lounge!!
  697. Marrying a lifer
  698. Dealing with the Publicity
  699. 25 to life
  700. who has a misbehavin lifer!?
  701. Sentence like candy
  702. God PLEASE HELP ME!! I can't take it no more!!!
  703. how many years
  704. Dealing with reality
  705. My daughter said something so funny about her daddy.
  706. Lifer Members ~ Check In please!
  707. NEW HERE....FIRST VISIT TODAY...'long'
  708. The next step begins...pray for us please!
  709. Welcome to the Lifer Lounge!!
  710. Film Project on Women in Love with Lifers...Looking for Participants...
  711. Possibility of Parole....
  712. How many lifers filed federal appeals?
  713. Life without the possibility of parole
  714. Christmas in the Hole
  715. Sharing some exciting news...
  716. Trying to bring family visits back need opinions
  717. Happy new Year, Lifer Lounge!
  718. Are Most Lifers Down For Murder?
  719. Do You Ever Wonder
  720. What Kind of Influence does our marriage have on our kids?
  721. I'm back & visits were reinstated after a year!
  722. i've got sooo much luv 4 PTO!
  723. Trying Not To Let My Immagination Run Away...
  724. Me and my lifer are getting married in 15 days!
  725. Concerns of Growing Old Alone
  726. Help me deal with his Mother~!
  727. The truth comes out...
  728. Yes My Mom Filled out Visit Application Form!!!
  729. We did it
  730. Lifers Go To War!!
  731. What the H E double hockey sticks?!?!?! (venting)
  732. Lifer Loves Its Febuary~
  733. more exciting news to share!
  734. I need some good 'REAL" advice
  735. URGENT! Preparing for Parole Hearing - need help!
  736. Great news for a change!!
  737. I bought our rings last night!!
  738. I haven't updated in a while...
  739. Need Some Advice
  740. What would YOU be willing to do?
  741. A Weekend Of Action...
  742. Crossing Paths...Has it ever happened to you?
  743. Lifer Lounge!
  744. TV Documentary Series
  745. Did Your Family Disown you?
  746. Da Getting Rewarded
  747. what does "life" mean 2 u?
  748. What would you do if you found out your life may be covering for someone else?
  749. What Was Your Lifers Childhood Like?
  750. Need someone to talk to
  751. help/ Brother needs encouragement!
  752. Are Lifers more trouble or easier?
  753. ok Im confused can u plz explain
  754. Another Warped Tale from inside
  755. I hope this inspires and gives you hope...
  756. Our Visit Tuesday
  757. April Fools Lifer Lounge!
  758. California Lifers-Family visits
  759. New here, share your stories with me..
  760. Boyfriend/Girlfriend : Life without parole?
  761. Matching tattoos with your lifer?
  762. Ok Here is The Dilemma
  763. Am I Crazy?
  764. Lifers and MWI
  765. Lifer Lounge! May 07
  766. Help me understand....
  767. Do You Get Overwhelmed?
  768. The Little Things
  769. Finally approved!
  770. Lonliness intensified once you are married?
  771. Husband Going To Board Need Help!!
  772. How Long Have You Been With Your Lifer?
  773. The Innocence Project
  774. Hi there
  775. Update
  776. Friends & Family - Did they Stand by them?
  777. Happy June Lifer lounge!
  778. lifers in california
  779. Life Without Parole
  780. I just want to say..
  781. Love is becoming frustration
  782. POEM: Inspiration
  783. It is official
  784. Lifer's Insecurities
  785. Some days are so hard
  786. Dating/in a relationship with an inmate? Appear in documentary!
  787. Question on family visits
  788. Self Loathing
  789. Reactions to Your Relationship
  790. July lifer lounge
  791. Per Curiam Affirmed - Ok... I Can Handle This
  792. States Where Life does not mean Life
  793. Fl-cure
  794. From DR to LWOP....
  795. Are they allowed to do this?
  796. My Lifer Says He Feels Lucky
  797. ? for MD lifers sentance
  798. How Has Your Family Reacted To Your Lifer?
  799. thank you, Lifer Family!
  800. life????
  801. Days when you really need him home...
  802. Does It Drive You Crazy?
  803. August 2007 lounge for lifer's
  804. Tv Documentary looking for contributors
  805. A Birthday Wish
  806. Marrying My Lifer August 18! UPDATE~PICTURES!!!
  807. Have questions about life sentences-Son charged
  808. Does it bother you to see yourself aging physically ...
  809. How long is...
  810. Happy September, Lifer Lounge!
  811. Tiddy bit tired today
  812. Another update...
  813. Help with advice on Lifer in AD SEG
  814. New to Forum
  815. Motions being filed by his attny
  816. Do you ever get mad at your lifer?
  817. Going to see my husband!
  818. We Are The True Dedicated....
  819. How many Lifers have made parole...& how long were you down?
  820. How Far Do You Go...
  821. What We Do When We Are Alone..
  822. After 9 months get to see my Husband
  823. Lifers and Outside Contact
  824. Happy October Halloween ! Lifer family and friends!
  825. When Your Lifer Is Feeling The Life...
  826. Book project about loving someone in prison
  827. I finally got to talk to him!
  828. He said he cried himself to sleep the other night...
  829. When is your Anniversary
  830. If You Had a Life Sentence
  831. Lifer In Nyc
  832. Lifer Lovers Are Unique
  833. my son is in prison for life without parole.
  834. Sometimes it just hits out of the blue
  835. What Question do You Hate the Most
  836. Are You The Only Visitors
  837. I have to ask again about aging ... FEMALE issue
  838. My Lonely Life
  839. Lost in it all.
  840. update on our newborn
  841. Lottery or Lifer (light question)
  842. Thankful November, LiferLovers! *check-in time*
  843. Who Wears The Pants??
  844. Happy Thanksgiving, Lifer Family!!
  845. Holiday Rituals with Lifers
  846. how obtain his birth certificate...
  847. Lifers and the life
  848. Have to Severe Ties With Family
  849. A very quick update
  850. Happy Holidays, Lifer Lounge!!
  851. Have You Dealt With This?
  852. **VERY LONG** Need lifer advice
  853. I need a little reassurance from long haul ladies...
  854. loving lifers: do any of ya'll have an understanding with him/her
  855. I am new... I need someone to talk to...
  856. I Got Roses at Work For our Anniversary
  857. Gratitude
  858. Does felony murder conviction = max. security prison
  859. For Every Lifer
  860. January 2008 HAPPY NEW YEAR~~~~~~
  861. Hopefully Some Good News - Need some help
  862. Looking for FLORIDA Lifers
  863. Our Year
  864. The big tattoo!
  865. I Have To Take A Stand
  866. was I too mean?
  867. A Lifer speaks out after release
  868. any advice for first visit with lifer?
  869. Checking In With My Lifer Family
  870. I don't think he gets it!
  871. How do you do it?????
  872. Keeping you guys informed on the case
  873. If your loved one has an "L" behind the years does that make him a lifer?
  874. Which state has family visits for lifers?
  875. Your Lifer and Drugs & Alcohol
  876. Lifer Parole Hearing Prep
  877. Transfer to the hole...
  878. CC Checking in - the House, the Husband, & The BOX
  879. Missing Him So, In Alabama Intro - MrsBone
  880. Opinions w/o asking for them
  881. Why I Love People So Much
  882. Lifer Valentines! (lifer lounge)
  883. I was just wondering...
  884. Definition of a LIFER??-friend or lover?
  885. Letters... So Much More Than Words
  886. Had our parole hearing yesterday
  887. loving a lifer...
  888. What is a closed facilty???
  889. Lamont's Hankie 4 Delphine
  890. In love with a lifer in holman in al
  891. In trial please pray for us!
  892. How do you keep the spirits of a lifer Up?
  893. As Promised...Yet, another update on our case!
  894. Lifer Lounge 2008
  895. going to write a lifer soon
  896. My own introduction
  897. compassionate visits for lifers
  898. My emotions are getting all out of whack...
  899. Help - wanting a baby with a lifer
  900. My Intro
  901. Need some advice
  902. Getting Married To Your Lifer
  903. Presenting Mrs.
  904. What emotions my lifer is feeling..how hard it is?
  905. Do lifers stop maturing emotionally when they go in?
  906. Got Letter from My Ex (lifer)
  907. I said I would never do this again
  908. Life without the possibility of parole
  909. Waiting for an answer to an appeal
  910. Sending Maps
  911. I Think It Is Harder For Me Then Him?? Life And Not Having Him By My Side..
  912. Getting VERY Fed Up!
  913. Lost my wedding ring!
  914. Certain Posts that get to me. Do they get to you?
  915. He's Out of Confinement. :)
  916. Explaining PTO To your lifer
  917. Lifers and birthdays
  918. Family Issues with Loving Your Lifer?
  919. Lifer lounge May 2008!
  920. Are we noble people?
  921. App for Commutation or Clemency for LWOP
  922. Is this a dating website?
  923. Too soon to celebrate, but....
  924. I just can't do it anymore....
  925. Lifer Programs?
  926. Plans to get him out (just for fun)
  927. His Family Is THE PITS
  928. I'm Completely Lost
  929. In Denial!! Depressed!!
  930. Does he tell you he is coming home?
  931. Scared
  932. How Are You?
  933. Life Sentence
  934. The Friends We Make
  935. Can I ask? hiring lawyer for appeal
  936. A Little Advice
  937. How did you meet your lifer before they went in or after they went in?
  938. Selling art work on EBay for lifers.
  939. Fall In Love With Lifer Now What
  940. I Was There When The Took Him
  941. Lifer Lover Lounge June 2008!
  942. Who would be the best option as next president?
  943. Need To Vent! BIG ISSUES!!!
  944. Just Wanted To Let All Of You Know...
  945. Lifers who had Co-Defendents Question
  946. meaning of "lifer"
  947. Making Mends
  948. Should I say Goodbye...
  949. Lifer lounge! July 08
  950. Parole For A Lifer...
  951. A hard truth
  952. Sentencing Adjustment
  953. Venting!!!
  954. Lonely Weekends
  955. My lifer made out his Will -UPDATE
  956. 28 to life
  957. A New August Chit Chat (lifer lounge)
  958. Wow.. you guys are amazing!!!
  959. Please welcome desertmoonwoman as the lifer forums newest RA!
  960. Lifers without conjugal visits...
  961. How do you feel sleeping alone??
  962. my daughters father
  963. This Was My Problem and How I Solved It
  964. Huge CA Supreme Court decision today!
  965. To the ladies who met ther lifers in prison
  966. What is the glue that holds you to your lifer?
  967. Feeling Down
  968. Just a reminder that we may all forget when times are rough...
  969. Question about Sentencing???
  970. Visit Terminated
  971. Any Happy Ending With Lifers
  972. Don't lose hope pray without ceasing
  973. The Lifer Lounge!!
  974. New here & I am trying not to get discouraged alittle help..
  975. He Did It....
  976. I Made It In Spite Of Hannah
  977. keep focus ladies =)
  978. Do female lifers need Male friends?
  979. I Am Bitter.
  980. Getting Married and having Doubts...want advice Please!
  981. What do you say????
  982. NY DOC Decided They Need Him More Than Me
  983. Does anyone think there are some that deserves life in prison?
  984. So freaking mad
  985. He was stabbed
  986. In love with a lifer
  987. four weddings and a execution...
  988. laughter & fun with your lifer...
  989. engaged or married to lifer...
  990. DC Metro area?
  991. All or Nothing Love...Love STRONGER than Fear...
  992. Being a lifers woman ~ would you if you could get pregnant?
  993. sad still no letter
  994. aggravated capital life sentence
  995. The Embarassing Visit :(
  996. Am I doing the right thing?
  997. The October Lifer Lounge
  998. Think about love
  999. Oh my gosh ~ CA, Please vote no on prop 9
  1000. The Hole
  1001. Our journey ends here (UPDATE 10/24/08)
  1002. Walk Out or Body Bag?
  1003. A lifer who needs you help please!
  1004. Need Advice
  1005. Introducing My Lifer
  1006. Halloween Weekend!
  1007. I'm in luv with a lifer
  1008. The only way that you can fight back
  1009. November Lifer Lounge
  1010. Lifers... dislikes & likes
  1011. Lifers, who asked who?
  1012. Do You Have a Social Life
  1013. How does your lifer feel about sex...
  1014. 15 to Life
  1015. i just wanna say hi to you all
  1016. His hearing was today
  1017. I Got A Letter... and It wasn't For Me...
  1018. I guess it's my turn...
  1019. Please welcome StormChild as our newest Lifer RA!
  1020. Stay strong people!!!!
  1021. Financial & emotional support
  1022. I went for a visit...
  1023. He misses his family
  1024. jpay
  1025. A Different Kind Of Letter
  1026. I have a question about 3 strikes law
  1027. What's the longest consecutive time you've gone without contact visits?
  1028. How do you handle your lifer's mood swings?
  1029. For the "more mature woman !"
  1030. Best Idea EVER! LOL!
  1031. Fears and Joys of Doing this Walk
  1032. Finally have a date!
  1033. RA's no longer listed on forum bottom
  1034. An oldie needs some schooling...
  1035. Amazing News
  1036. What do I tell the kids?
  1037. has this ever happened to you??
  1038. When he tells you something is wrong, but he leaves out the details
  1039. Parole Denied
  1040. Lifer went to the hole...
  1041. It's worse than I thought
  1042. I got a letter from my ex.husband
  1043. He called
  1044. does the holiday season make your man sadder???
  1045. Horrible month
  1046. Wonderful Day
  1047. married to a lifer
  1048. Coming to terms with getting older
  1049. CALIFORNIA's PROPOSITION 9
  1050. parole reversed
  1051. New to this forum
  1052. I am really trying to understand and not snap on his family
  1053. Thankful For The Lifer Forum
  1054. His teenagers
  1055. Happy Thanksgiving!
  1056. Thankful for the love we share
  1057. Question: Lifers after death
  1058. Does your lifer know about PTO?
  1059. His Board Hearing is this Thursday, Dec. 4th
  1060. When he doesn't write
  1061. Just wanted to pop in and say hello
  1062. december lifer lounge...
  1063. Just a Really Crappy Day
  1064. sad cant see my lifer
  1065. When people ask if your married how do you answer
  1066. Parole upheld for San Mateo man
  1067. Extreme ANGER
  1068. Inspiration for Lifers
  1069. I want to share something he wrote
  1070. I need your thoughts...everyone of you.
  1071. Denied
  1072. Have juvenile LWOP terms been overturned in Michigan?
  1073. sentence reduction
  1074. issue after issue
  1075. Another Lifer With A Release Date!
  1076. How Did Your Lifer Prepare?
  1077. Does he fear dying in prison??
  1078. An Innocence Within
  1079. Parole Public Hearing
  1080. My Table Friend - Mr. D GOING HOME!!!
  1081. Could YOU do life?
  1082. Is this common?
  1083. A Hard Candy Christmas
  1084. 9 Days Till Christmas
  1085. On the 8th Day of Christmas..
  1086. Do you contact the prison often?
  1087. Our First 1
  1088. On the 7th Day of Christmas
  1089. Darrell wants me to help him but how do I ?
  1090. What kind of relationship do you have with your lifer?
  1091. Question, how do i get through and deal with this situation?
  1092. I am so mad at him He can find his own help
  1093. Takin a break
  1094. Happy holidays
  1095. Merry Christmas
  1096. Santa brought us a new Lifer Mod!
  1097. A beautiful Christmas gift
  1098. Can lifers get life insurance
  1099. How did you meet your lifer?
  1100. Yes! We all survived christmas
  1101. Christmas Blessings
  1102. We got our vote... it's a no.
  1103. Hi every one
  1104. Help!..I need advice..
  1105. Any lifer families out there on an out of state transfer?
  1106. To the ladies of lifers
  1107. Update On Case - Assumed?
  1108. I love this forum!
  1109. assistance please?
  1110. 2009 Loving a Lifer Check In
  1111. Good Tidings To All...
  1112. What do I say to him?
  1113. Whats one thing you think your lifer woud dislike about living with you?
  1114. New Years Resolutions with lifer
  1115. Worst and best of 2008
  1116. January 2009 Lifer Lounge
  1117. Does anyone know why Lifers lost their conjugal visits?
  1118. To Visit or Not to Visit
  1119. What Is LIFE?
  1120. How Honest with Yourself Are You?
  1121. How long have you been with your LIFER?
  1122. How many miles away from lifer? Why not live near?
  1123. Is there any lifer lovers from Iowa?
  1124. Lifer ladies: Wish I didn't post that thread
  1125. To have that walk back again
  1126. how did u know he was your soulmate love of your life
  1127. Got My Letter After First Visit!
  1128. Group Intervention
  1129. Parting from him...
  1130. Being a faithful wife
  1131. Who is married to their lifer
  1132. I get to make a date with my lifer.
  1133. Frustrated. They found a letter and now they're watching us.
  1134. He's getting life...
  1135. Any Lifer Success Stories?
  1136. Killing Lamont with my Fists...gggrrrrr
  1137. My Husband's brother!
  1138. Crazy emotions taking control away from me.
  1139. Rejected after First Visit
  1140. Prayers Please
  1141. My Man is a Lifer
  1142. The health of your lifer
  1143. Good News for a Lifer in NY
  1144. Visiting my lifer for the first time
  1145. How are my lifer ladies friends tonight?
  1146. Some quotes to share!
  1147. Lifers with kids??
  1148. lifers with kids in states with family visits
  1149. Did Ya Ever Get Up and Put on Two Different Socks
  1150. First fight of 2009
  1151. To the lifer's wives!
  1152. Tattoos
  1153. Valentine's Lifer Lounge
  1154. My man proposed to me today!!
  1155. Wishing I was more like my husband at times.
  1156. My Sister's Condemnation
  1157. Soul-Searching and Need Advice
  1158. Just wanted to vent
  1159. How do I tell him... his dad has leukemia
  1160. Ever question your sanity because of his case?
  1161. How do you deal with the hard times?
  1162. Gifts, from: him to you
  1163. Do you girls ever make bets with your lifer?
  1164. No Visits...does anyone else relate?
  1165. What does being faithful mean to you?
  1166. Would you object to your lifer writing other women?
  1167. Phone arguments, how do you ladies recover?
  1168. Did things shift after marriage?
  1169. When his family puts you in the middle...
  1170. Does your lifer object to you writing other inmates?
  1171. Does your Lifer have a prison name?
  1172. Wanted to Share (daughter's boyfriend asking husband's permission for marriage)
  1173. UPDATE: Going to TX to see my lifer
  1174. How did you tell your family about your lifer and do you regret it?
  1175. Is This A Rejection?
  1176. Positive comments about our lifer family
  1177. Do lifers get parole someday?
  1178. Ok>> We Are Having MAJOR Issues
  1179. My First visit
  1180. Having a hard time coping with this life
  1181. Need advice...being faithful vs an open arrangement?
  1182. Looking for suggestions on how to cope with lack of human touch
  1183. If you were the lifer, would he do this for you??
  1184. Do you ever feel that there are different "rules" for a relationship with a lifer?
  1185. What advice can you give your lifer whose family is not supportive.
  1186. he touched my heart
  1187. Whos Lifer is in the SHU?
  1188. How did you know you would live this life with him?
  1189. He wants to come home so bad...what do I say?
  1190. Got to see him!
  1191. Angry with myself
  1192. What keeps your lifer most busy during free time?
  1193. Rob says thanks PTO/ Lifer forum!!
  1194. Special Visit With My Lifer
  1195. Sharing a picture of me and my Husband with my lifer family!
  1196. Thoughtful tonight - sorry so long
  1197. A question that I have been pondering!
  1198. Don't want to leave my lifer
  1199. I think I messed things up.
  1200. Spring Lifer Lounge
  1201. To move closer to my lifer? Need advice!
  1202. Lifer family!! It's a Boy
  1203. Is it just me? Betrayed by a friend.
  1204. Odd question: Where do I go to Help A lifer Get Female Pen Pals
  1205. My Lifer Friends-do you substitute food for sex?
  1206. My son has been sentenced to 68 years In VA
  1207. Am I the Only One?
  1208. Hi Lifer Family! Just dropping by.
  1209. Had a dream about my Lifer last night
  1210. NEED ideas for an anniversary present
  1211. A Lighter Subject for a Change
  1212. Visits for lifers
  1213. approved for the new apartment...
  1214. Is It Hard.....knowing they're in for life?
  1215. Taking sexy photos into visiting rooms
  1216. About the lifer who owns your heart
  1217. Another woman contacting your lifer, how do you feel?
  1218. Keeping the flames burning with your lifer
  1219. That Helpless Feeling...
  1220. Life sentence in your state?
  1221. Any Long Distance Lifer Lovers In Here?
  1222. Why can't I share others' happiness?
  1223. From a lifer's wife, one word to describe marriage
  1224. Major life changes with your lifer
  1225. 2morrow's His Birthday...HELP!
  1226. My dad's a "lifer"
  1227. We got a date, then the Gov. took it!
  1228. Found out my lifer has a penpal ad (UPDATE! Problem Solved!)
  1229. Avoiding the lifer's forum (coming to terms with a life sentence)
  1230. Loving my Lifer...
  1231. My trip is coming together
  1232. Would you be mad if he didnt tell you he was a lifer?
  1233. Anyone have a parent doing life?
  1234. Thank You SOO Much Lifer Family
  1235. 7 to life
  1236. Vent/Need Advice on After Visit Sadness
  1237. Baby Momma Drama comes to an end
  1238. Do you hang on to hope that your lifer will come home to you?
  1239. Life? Are you serious? What's wrong with me?
  1240. Packing to move
  1241. Your Photos with your Lifer!(what do they reveal?)
  1242. Hi Lifer Ladies! I had a girl!
  1243. So very very stressed
  1244. Finally Got the pictures of my daughter!
  1245. Do you have any CONTINGENCY plans?
  1246. We've been blessed!!
  1247. Married a dead Man!?
  1248. Good News!! (Lifer got parole!)
  1249. I messed up so bad
  1250. I'm jealous of those release date tickers
  1251. Recovering from parole hearings
  1252. Questions about dating a lifer ( regarding federal parole)
  1253. I am moving today...closer to my lifer
  1254. A question I posed to my lifer..
  1255. Feeling so insecure right now-broken heart
  1256. How would you tell others about your husband/Partner?
  1257. Asking for Prayers from my Lifer Family (Lifer is sick)
  1258. Wanna marry him..
  1259. He's Getting Transferred!
  1260. I'm so upset and scared... (problems while moving closer to my Lifer)
  1261. Prayers for my Lifer and Dear Friend (more time added0
  1262. I Miss My Lifer Family!
  1263. I don't know how much more I can take...
  1264. How do you celebrate Mother's Day?
  1265. Does getting older freak you out?
  1266. Silly Story with a Question?
  1267. We're Finally Getting Married!!
  1268. stupidness
  1269. Need advice...my guy was attacked
  1270. One of those days...
  1271. How are visits in your state?
  1272. Very Good News... (Lifer friend found suitable for parole)
  1273. Transfer denied..
  1274. Does he ever tell you you'd be better off without him?
  1275. Loving my Lifer and Fighting vs. Accepting
  1276. "Only you know this" (confidences from my lifer)
  1277. Would he be better off without me?
  1278. Life with a MEPD... (is it better than Life without?)
  1279. Lifers and death
  1280. Wanting a baby with my lifer
  1281. Just a little sharing (issues between Lifer and daughter)
  1282. Sentenced TODAY (25 to life)
  1283. Are you friends with other inmates' wives?
  1284. Much Lifer family love needed for Penwife
  1285. I am broken (marriage to Lifer is ending)
  1286. "Get Out of Jail Free Card" (is Lifer giving me an out?)
  1287. Mama says..... (I deserve better than my Lifer)
  1288. How do you explain modern technology?
  1289. Rough weekend (problems piling up)
  1290. Things just keep getting worse...(no-contact visits)
  1291. My man is about to snap, he gave me 4 days... what should I do?
  1292. Sunshine Lifer Lounge
  1293. He is GUILTY and HE LIED BAD...I am hurting so bad
  1294. Hardest issue to cope with right now (reaching out to Lifer's daughter)
  1295. His crime has changed me
  1296. What's wrong with me? I'm so numb...
  1297. I Have Bad Timing... (Lifer doesn't want me to visit)
  1298. Advice Please! (is my guy a lifer?)
  1299. I think I've come to a conclusion (sticking with my Lifer)
  1300. The long term effects of administrative segregation?
  1301. He told me where he wants to be buried
  1302. Life and parole (will they be on parole for life?)
  1303. What kinds of legal documents should we have...?
  1304. Is your Lifer selfish to ask you to stay?
  1305. My daughter/ His step-daughter
  1306. Comin Here Is Like Having a Girls Night Out/Thank you!
  1307. Reconnecting with an old friend who's now a Lifer
  1308. Parole board denial
  1309. Hubby is depressed - any ideas on how to lift his spirits?
  1310. My Visit Yesterday, Started Bad But Ended Great!
  1311. So Worried...haven't heard from my Lifer
  1312. The stress of being a lifer's wife-share your stresses.
  1313. Lifer caught me in a lie...
  1314. How do you make your lifer feel like a real man?
  1315. Saw this today and I am pissed (incarcerated celebrities getting special privileges)
  1316. What would your lifer's ideal occupation be?
  1317. How do you deal with in-laws/family - or do you?
  1318. Lifer called.. I'm going for a visit
  1319. Happy 4th of July My Lifer Friends!
  1320. We're Taking a Break
  1321. Worried about my lifer - he hasn't called in a month (Updated)
  1322. Do you ever wonder if you are being played?
  1323. My First Visit update!
  1324. Sharing the same feelings as your lifer at the same time?
  1325. The Difference Between Lifers and Other Inmates?
  1326. I am so thankful right now
  1327. My First, His Fifth -- Parole Denial
  1328. My baby wants me to move to be closer to his parents!
  1329. Money issues-no money to send - how will he get by?
  1330. Missing my lifer ladies/needing your support
  1331. How do you deal with the reality of their sentence?
  1332. Never Saw This Coming (Updated!)
  1333. I had no title, just thoughts I had tonight.
  1334. Why do the families of Lifers take it? (Re: parole denials)
  1335. Stories of older (elderly) couples at visits
  1336. Venting about lifers not being released
  1337. Hello Ladies - checking in with some good news
  1338. Need help understanding "conspiracy to commit murder"
  1339. Needing to vent...nobody to talk to
  1340. Went to see him today...happy, sad, mix of emotions
  1341. "Dear John" Letter
  1342. Upcoming Marriage to my Lifer
  1343. All this drama I am tired of people
  1344. ~* August Lifer Lovin' Check-In Lounge *~
  1345. How do you deal with his family?
  1346. Reconsidering my decision (thinking of canceling wedding plans)
  1347. I'm experiencing depression and need support
  1348. He loves me ~ he doesn't stand a chance fighting it
  1349. Staying in Reality
  1350. My mom is meeting my MWI Lifer tomorrow! (w/Update)
  1351. Dealing with the charges
  1352. I think he is getting a bit delusional
  1353. California Lifer to be released in October
  1354. I need some insight re "Jailhouse Lawyers"
  1355. Making Friends When Your Spouse is a Lifer
  1356. More Reality Than I Wanted or Needed
  1357. My son Anthony is home!
  1358. ~* Autumn Lifer Lovin' Check-In Lounge *~
  1359. Do we have a chance at parole?
  1360. My lifer family (recuperating from a car accident)
  1361. Do you think your lifer's TOO honest?
  1362. Welcome back, StormChild!
  1363. He loves me; he loves me not
  1364. Something to Share...card from my Lifer
  1365. Would you do life with him?
  1366. How to Dance in the Rain - inspiration for Lifer Lovers
  1367. Would you mind if your Lifer had a pen pal ad up online?
  1368. What keeps your Lifer relationship going strong year after year?
  1369. How long has your lifer been in prison?
  1370. Phone call vent -- arguing with my Lifer
  1371. Loving a Lifer and your long-term financial situation
  1372. Ex-hubby & I reunite
  1373. What season are you and lifer in?
  1374. When to tell my family about my Lifer?
  1375. Do fear of judgement & having to explain where your lifer is isolate you from others?
  1376. Married to a lifer - writing a paper defending my marriage
  1377. Are there any subjects you can't talk to your Lifer about?
  1378. Hubby seeing brother after 20 yrs
  1379. Raising a Child Alone - Is It Fair?
  1380. Help - I need to hear Lifer success stories
  1381. We're going back to the board (UPDATE found suitable again!)
  1382. I feel like my Lifer and I are growing apart
  1383. Accepted this life? Have I? Have You?
  1384. Crazy things randomly heard about this Lifer life
  1385. What do the kids say about the Lifer life?
  1386. Happily Ever After...?
  1387. Suggestions for explaining how you can love a lifer?
  1388. Venting and Advice Needed -- should I visit him when it's non-contact?
  1389. My heart is ripping wide open and I can't stop it
  1390. Being with a lifer, how do you handle temptation?
  1391. My marriage application approval is back
  1392. It just hit me...he's facing a life sentence
  1393. Are there family visits for lifers/3rd strikers in other states
  1394. Question about marriage and family visits
  1395. Weighed down I can hardly breathe -- this Lifer life gets to me sometimes
  1396. Thank you lifer family for helping me keep my perspective
  1397. There IS hope for our Lifers to come home!
  1398. I got my 1st contact visit after 5 years!
  1399. Support For Colorado Lifers? Feeling Drained
  1400. How does your Lifer handle the holidays?
  1401. Why attack me and my children in the victim impact statement?
  1402. I Am New Here - Intro by Amani
  1403. Realizing what 25- life means
  1404. Heading for the Holidays Lifer Lounge
  1405. Has This LIFER Life Taken Over?
  1406. L*i*f*e - his sentence has changed how I see life
  1407. My daughter's biological father and lifer father
  1408. Things that make you go hmmm (prison related)
  1409. I am so mad at his family! They won't contact him
  1410. Had a very bad visit today-Share your bad visit day
  1411. I am so mad I could spit nails!
  1412. Loving a Lifer vs faithfulness (physically)?
  1413. Does his life sentence influence how you are in your relationship?
  1414. Does your lifer live life with a purpose?
  1415. How do you deal with, "I see the ring, but where is the man"'
  1416. My new pen pal is serving life
  1417. The stress of being stereotyped
  1418. Need some help to make him 'chin up' again
  1419. Dealing with their nerves as well as your own
  1420. Thank you - it's nice to have this forum for support
  1421. First bit of negativity towards my relationship with my Lifer
  1422. New member - Loving a Nevada Lifer
  1423. I really need my lifer ladies...really bad night
  1424. Does the case change your preception of the crime?
  1425. The lifers wife - how do you do it?
  1426. Feeling confused and hurt about my lifer